26 Mount Vernon, WA
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My self-summary
I love to socialize and try new things, I'm open-minded and try to push myself outside my comfort zones. I'll try just about anything at least once! I'm 26 years young and I haven't completely figured myself out yet.

I'm still growing into the person I'm going to be for the rest of my life, still getting my figurative shit together, still in the process of figuring out exactly how much bad assery I have.

Where do I even start on here.... I'm really busy, I work 70 hours a week and I like to spend time in dance class, running, or going out with friends. I strive to love unconditionally, and have been told I'm easy to get along with.

I'm in an open relationship. We practice poly and open lifestyles and are completely honest with each other about other playmates we have or relationships we're in. If you have questions about what any of this means, you can totally message me, I'll gladly explain =)

That said, I've found the person I intend to be with for hopefully a very long time. The person that's as crazy about me as I am about him, the person I can call my best friend and say absolutely anything to and he'll still support me and support my passions and endeavors.

However, I'm always looking for new chemistry, new friendships, and new adventures of all kinds. Right now I'm looking for a girl that I click with that I can introduce to my partner as well, either for a night or as an ongoing dynamic depending on the chemistry.

Until I find "the girl", wanna meet up and kick it sometime? Let's find some common ground (and some uncommon ground) and see what kind of shenanigans we can get into!
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm working and focusing on improving me. Health-wise, fitness-wise, financially, just working on basic goals. I also go out and have fun with friends, have a good time, like anybody else. Always looking for fun new places to go out and have fun without spending a fortune.

I'm a dancer, a passionate, excited dancer. I love all forms of dance, but my favorites are hip hop and jazz, I fit class in wherever I can. I also like spending time at the gym, running, weights, kickboxing classes, hot yoga classes, whatever I happen to be in the mood for. Which is usually followed by coming home, blasting music and singing in the shower at the top of my lungs. And yes, I'm totally serious here. ;-P
I’m really good at
Talking fast. Shopping. Sarcasm. Empathy. Listening. Advice-giving. Planning/coordinating events... planning/coordinating life. Making a dork of myself. I'll add sex here because, honestly, it's true. =P
The first things people usually notice about me
Um, people usually say one of four things about their first impression of me.... either "bubbly", "sassy", "bossy", or "quiet". And yes that's a random bunch of traits, but I'll let you decide which is most accurate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- I love to read mysteries, thrillers and supernatural themed books- James Patterson, Laurell K Hamilton, Patricia Briggs, Kim Harrison, Kelley Armstrong... The list goes on.

Movies- my one and only rule about movies is that horror films are out of the question. Wish I could say I was tougher than that..... but I'm just not; scary movies freak me out really easy. I appreciate a good action flick, or the occasional romantic comedy. Fave movies usually fall under the musical genre, but honestly I get so into stories that I'll watch nearly anything. Ex: The Labrynth; Step Up; Rent; Chicago; Save the Last Dance, Shall We Dance, Boondock Saints, Fight Club, Red; Moulin Rouge; Pitch Perfect; Lawless

Music- My taste varies with my mood and energy. The only local radio station I really don't enjoy is Smooth Jazz. And hey, guess what? They're gone now! I love their replacement station, Click 98.9! Other faves include 89.5, 92.5, 93.3, 106.1, 103.7, and 107.7.

Shows- I don't watch a ton of TV, I don't pay for cable... but there are a few shows I own or my mom records and we watch together on the weekends sometimes: Supernatural, Suits, Grey's Anatomy (guilty pleasure!), Buffy, Angel, Harper's Island, Boston Legal, Tru Blood, Walking Dead, Weeds, Dexter. I'm also a fan of a lot of the cooking shows on the Food Network, and I enjoy a good research/documentary show!

Food- Honestly, I love food. I'm a foodie. It would be easier for me to tell you what I don't like, rather than what I like most. I don't like coconut. Or couscous. Or horseradish. Or liver. I do like Chinese/Indonesian/Thai/Mexican/Italian... trust me. The list goes way, way on. Oh. And I'm a huge sushi fan. Love. Sushi. Did I mention I love sushi? And steak. Definitely love steak. =P

Extra points if you know and love Witness bar in Seattle =D
The six things I could never do without
Not in any particular order:

Cell phone
Being active

..... is it possible to add sex here as a silent seventh? Just thought I'd ask!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My plans- what am I doing today, what am I doing tomorrow, next week, month, year... how the heck am I going to get all this crap done?! Haha.

I suppose plans also include what do I *want* to do with my life, what kind of person do I want to be, how to I become that person and get to that place in my life.

And occasionally I think of vacationing, because I mean c'mon, who doesn't love a good getaway?
On a typical Friday night I am
Really depends.... I could be in a dance class, or out hanging out with friends, either having some drinks or seeing a movie our out to dinner or maybe a party. Orrrr maybe I'm having a night in watching shows, vegging in pj's, cooking or reading!

Or, if I want to go out but don't really want to socialize, I'll either hit the gym hard or possibly go see a movie all by myself.... only occasionally!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open-book. Ask me anything.
You should message me if
You're open minded and curious. If you believe in poly lifestyles. If you are passionate and emotionally open. If you're not intimidated to speak your mind, even if you know the other person may not enjoy hearing it.

Please keep in mind, if you're not local (as in if you're out of state), I'm not interested.