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50 / M / Straight / Single
Albuquerque, New Mexico
- Last Online
- Dec 5
- Hispanic / Latin
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m).
- Body Type
- Mostly other
- Christianity and very serious about it
- Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from two-year college
- Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
- Rather not say
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)
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Movies: Comedies, Documentaries
Shows: News, AGT, M.A.S.H, Sports Center, Public Events
Food: I like it all, both eating out and cooking and eating in. (but cooking is no fun if you can't share it with someone, it just tastes better that way)
Music: Contemporary Christian, Acoustic Storm Sunday Mornings on 102.5, Classic Rock 60's, 70's, 80's, Classic Country, and some Latin music.
5. Good Food
6. A few bucks in my pocket
My children are grown and live on their own and have their own families. My grandkids call me papa Ray. I had the wonderful blessing of being a single custodial dad when my girls were in their teens, I have to say it was the most fullfilling season of my family life. I like children so if you have them or grandkids your are blessed with someone to share your values with.
In my former life I've worked in Corporate America and have also been self employed in Real Estate. I still manage some Real Estate and currently work in sales and marketing for a Risk Managment Company and also hold down a part-time Job on weekends. I stay busy, but all work and no play leads to a boring life. A woman who understands that a mans values how he can add value to the community knows he is persueing a dream/goal.
I don't do clubs, but, I enjoy good music live, dining out, local sporting events. I don't mind watching movies, but I don't like being planted in front of the TV for long periods of time. I work out regularly at least 3 times a week, I'm not a muscle head but stay in shape and try to eat right. As long a you take care of yourself, you don't have to run 5 miles 5 times a week or watch every carb or fat gram. Your beauty comes from your Love for God.
I'm looking for a companion that I can share quality time with, let me cook for you(it means I really like you), someone that likes to be encouraged, someone who likes small gifts of appreciation, someone who will let me hold you and squeeze you ;).....
What do men look for in a woman?" I'll try to be honest, so I have to speak generally and more candidly. If you don't see yourself in one of these description, I understand no one is perfect....
I am generally attracted to a woman who has some smarts. She doesn't have to be a genius or a doctor and her smarts don't have to be in the form of formal education. Being able to carry a conversation in a number of areas is vital!
I am generally attracted to women who have good relationships with their fathers and brothers. I don't do well with bitter people. If you still have problems with the previous men in your life, you are not for me.
A Christian. She doesn't have to be bible-thumping or preaching. But she and I should both agree that the orthodox Bible is the standard for life. We won't always meet it's requirements, but we should at least know where the line is. The Apostles Creed is a good start.
Raw physical attraction. I like a woman who looks and acts like she likes sex...just reserves it for the special man. A virgin is not required, but some virtue is required. A woman who acts like an asexual doesn't work as somebody I see myself with.
Children. I have no problem with a woman who has a kid...even two. I don't see it a major issue. Some guys do. To each his own.
I like a woman who can be supportive, but still can come with strong suggestions when it is needed. I don't want to be allowed to swim in my own bullsh*tforever. For a while, maybe, but not forever. I like a woman who can push me to be a better man without needing to break me down to do it. ENCOURAGEMENT is the key.
I like a woman to have good friends. Preferable with women who aren't bitter themselves. I can't necessarily control a woman's friends. I know that. A woman has to examine her friends on her own. The Bible says that bad company corrupts good morals and that we should not be deceived in this. Bottom line: who you surround yourselves with matters.
It is important to me that a woman has access to good mentors. The Bible says that the older women should teach the younger women how to be good wives. THIS MEANS THAT GOD KNOWS IT IS NOT A NATURAL SKILL-SET. Bottom line here is that we all will do what we have seen unless we are purposeful about learning a new way.
There is a final factor having to do with leadership and roles in the household, church and etc. I am more of a traditionalist when it comes to those things.
There is a final one that is HUGE. It's companionship. There is a book called His Needs - Her Needs that gets into it. A man, me included, wants a woman that enjoys just being with him. Like every now and again actually going to a game or going fishing or doing some yardwork. Whatever. It doesn't really matter. Men need to talk to their women.
Women need to do activities with their men.
Sowing and Reaping...
"...he who waters will himself be watered." (Proverbs 11:25b)
If you are longing for someone who will care for you, pray for you and make room in their life for you, first care for someone, pray for someone and make room in your life for them. As long as the Earth endures... seedtime and harvest will never cease... (Genesis 8:22)
Those are my thoughts. Am I missing anything?
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