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rayraym

22 / F / straight / Single

Jonesboro, Arkansas

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The Perfect Mix

Smart and cute .. it is time to honour that so i'll do it ;-) read more

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am electric, independent, and yet still sweet.

My Self-Summary

I like to flirt. I think being selfish to a point is only human. With that said I also put others before myself often and without question. My friends/family are the most important people in my life. It doesn't matter so much what I'm doing as who is with me. I take life one day at a time but I have big plans for myself.

I like good grammar. I'm not a grammar nazi by any means but I won't take you seriously if you can't/won't type in complete words and sentences.

There are a lot of things I am interested in. Some of those include photography, traveling or reading about traveling these days, bunnies, yoga, politics, anthropology, religious studies, alternative energy, history, trees, books, music, xkcd, wine, etc.

Things I should be interested in: internships, grad school, careers, learning to cook, financial responsibility, health insurance, housing market, etc.

Things I am absolutely not interested in: video games (only exception is the original mario brothers), anime, blue powerade, cats (allergic), poetry, fox news, etc.

Oh, and I love to laugh. At all sorts of things.

What I’m doing with my life

I'll soon be finishing up my degree in radio/tv and philosophy minor at ASU then I'll probably be off to grad school. Other than that I'm just trying to figure out where to go with the rest of my life.

I’m really good at

Successful procrastination.

Oh and I'm really good at picking out the perfect greeting card...for any occasion.

Scrabble. I once played 'quartz' on a triple word score to win a game.

Crossword puzzles. Sudoku puzzles. Puzzles in general.

The first things people usually notice about me

Apparently my lips and smile. Or my sweet glasses. Sometimes my tattoos...depending on if they're showing or not.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: East of Eden, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Conquest of Happiness, The God Delusion, The End of Faith, On the Road, Brave New World, God is Dead, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy series, A Clockwork Orange, The Fountainhead, Watchmen, Slaughterhouse-Five, Cat's Cradle, basically anything by Vonnegut.

Movies: Idiocracy, Wall-E, The Goonies, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Juno, Stigmata, Little Miss Sunshine, Saved, The Princess Bride...just to name a few

TV: Dexter, Weeds, The Office, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Psych, anything on Discovery, History, or NatGeo.

Music: I listen to a mixture of things; mostly indie with the occasional rock, classical, jazz, really anything that I think sounds good. I rely on pandora.com and the radio for most of my music.

I like live jazz, coffee, good conversation, and observing people...ideally all at the same time.

The six things I could never do without

Let's see...
1.books
2.family/friends
3.education
4.coffee or tea
5.my pet bunny (far superior to the typical dog or cat)
6.my laptop

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future. I am almost to the point that I really feel as if I need to decide what to do with my life, but I know that things will fall into place when the time comes. I hope to travel a lot in the future, there are so many places I'd like to visit. After graduating I might spend a few years teaching abroad and see where that takes me.

Also, the past. As far back as I can remember I suppose. I've noticed while the future and the past regularly occupy my thoughts, the present is oddly absent. I'm not sure how I feel about this, to be honest.

On a typical Friday night I am

Probably spending time with my friends, just goofing off and relaxing. Or possibly doing many inappropriate things together.

I'm not much for large parties or clubs.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

To quote a good friend...

"I tend to be up for anything at least once. Twice if I like it...three times if I can touch myself while doing it."

You should message me if

...if you find my words remotely interesting. Or if you think you can make me laugh. If you can, I'm yours.

Also, if you have an awesome beard.

I like talking to people, strangers in particular. Lots of fun. But don't message me if you lack basic conversation skills. Neither of us will enjoy it.