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30 Hemet, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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Hispanic / Latin
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Entertainment / Media
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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"Anybody remotely interesting is mad, in some way or another."
- The Doctor

Hey my name is Tom. I am an intelligent, odd, interesting geek and I like it that way. I am currently 29 although if you ask people I know they might disagree. Not to say that I can't be serious if I need to (work, classes, etc.), but I like to just be weird and have fun.

I currently drive transit buses, but I am getting back to my true passion of film making. I am gearing up to film a psychological thriller that I wrote last year. I also am a special effects artist who loves any type of horror movie.

I am poly (if you need a definition I have put if below). I am happily married to a wonderful lady who I met right here on this website her profile is:dannera. We are a polyamorus couple and it works out very well for us. I am currently looking for friends and possibly more.

Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly], meaning "many" or "several", and Latin amor, "love") is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. It is distinct from both swinging (which emphasizes sex with others as merely recreational) and polysexuality (which is attraction towards multiple genders and/or sexes.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working and prepping for a shoot in January. Also trying to help a friend raise money for his film, and working as a driver.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything you can possibly think of...
Yup that too,
but not that, or that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes are usually the first thing. I also have a really nice smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Stephen King, David Wong, Orson Scott Card, Neil Gaiman, etc. Usually if I walk through a bookstore I can usually find something I will love.

TV: Doctor Who,True Blood, Game of Thrones, Hotel Impossible, Being Human, Torchwood, Pit Boss. I watch alot of random shows and documentaries.

Movies: Horror movies, Donnie Darko, Requim for a Dream, Momento, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, El Mariachi, etc. Anything with zombies as long as we avoid movies with the word "Return of" in the title. I am also a fan of Repo: The Genetic Opera. Got a chance to hangout with some of the cast and it was great. Also would recommend The Devil's Carnival.

Music: Music tends to make up the fabric of who I am. I could put together a playlist to describe different times in my life. That leaves my taste very eclectic. Although if I have to narrow down a genre I would say rock in general.

Food: Sushi, Italian, Mexican, Chinese, Mongolian. I can find something I will love in any food type. I am a great cook, and at one point considered going to culinary school.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ha!!! Like I have 6 things!!
I guess my cats so thats 3.
My wife that's 4, and my
movie collection that's... Damn that's quite a few. Can we rename this category?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Plans to survive the Zombie Apocalypse or how to avoid jellyfish at all cost. I hate jellyfish.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home attempting tocooksomething good. Yes I am a guy and a really good cook. I would have made an awesome chef, plus I would have looked awesome in that hat. Maybe watching a movie at home or at the cinema.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I play table top role-playing games. Dungeons and Dragons, Pathfinder, and World of Darkness. That's not really too private most people actually know that one. Other than that I am a pretty open book so feel free to ask me anything.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you wanna hangout and get to know me. These profiles are so rigid and un-creative so you have no room to express yourself for who you are. Trust me I'm more interesting in person.

Yes as I stated before I am in a polyamorus relationship. This mean I love my wife, but we can both see other people either separately or together. This leaves me open to date freely. If you have any concern that I am being unfaithful to my lady please feel free to message her. She is a wonderful, understanding, and compassionate woman who is very open about us and our lifestyle.

I am always open to meeting new people of any background so please message me.

Post Script: If I messaged you it was a long, thought out decision. I don't do copy and paste emails. It means I found you interesting or awesome in some way. Please keep this in mind. I may look at a hundred profiles and only message one person. Thank you.