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51 Ramsey, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:00am
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Stupidity makes me crazy. Please don't make me crazy.

If you do not read this profile, and send me an email, I will know you did not read it. Please don't waste my time with form letters. I resent them and will not reply. You want a reply? Follow the golden rule.

You know.... summarizing me is all relative. Different people see me very differently. I guess like beauty, it's in the eyes of the beholder).

One thing noone contradicts is that I'm smart and I learn fast. If you can teach it, I can learn it - and then teach it myself.

I am socially liberal & fiscally conservative. I barely bought myself anything expensive before buying my first house.

I am loyal to those who are loyal to me. I don't believe in letting outside forces compromise relationships - they live or die on their own merits.

Just took the Dating Persona Test. Wow that thing is accurate!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Professionally, I'm currently a computer programmer and team lead for a bank. I dance whenever I can without driving myself crazy driving, parking, or staying awake driving (which means these days I usually only dance in NYC if I have someone to drive with, which is a bit of a drag..the best regular dances are in Manhattan). That leaves me dancing an average of 5 nights a month in NJ. I also exercise 3-4 times most weeks. I volunteer from time to time - used to be nearly full time hours. Recently I volunteered with HSUS for Sandy recovery and a program teaching high school students about personal finance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Logic. Dancing. Teaching almost anything I know how to do well and even some things I learn as I teach. (tutored all grades for a volunteer program a few years ago).
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Haven't read much lately - except health-related. Currently reading The Acid Alkaline Balance Diet and read a couple by Jilian Michaels (she's fantastic at communicating the stuff). Used to read a lot of Robert Ludlum, the Harry Potter books, & some self help books I'm a trekkie and have been since the early 70s. I even have Star Trek memorabilia (maybe that should have been in "The most private thing I'm willing to admit". I like most music, except rap. Classical puts me to sleep. I love country and as a swing dancer, I pretty much live for any 8 count music I can dance to. I like lots of ethnic food, but try to keep strong spice & dairy to a minimum.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I will eventually meet that one special man. I know one thing....I won't meet him online unless he actually reads my entire profile and responds in a way that makes that clear.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Historically, dancing. Recently, no particular place or activity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not as private a person as I probably should be.
You should message me if
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You know how to put 2 sentences together. You want to get to know someone amazing and out of the box. You get that everyone over the age of 4 has baggage and that in truly relating to another human being, you each take a side and carry.

If you are going to write and talk and give me reason to believe you might actually be a good guy and then vanish before we meet - go back to your wife (because I figure you're married if you're playing that game) and don't write me. If you really are a good guy, and single, write me. If we make plans to get together...and you change your mind or can't make it - don't be a coward. Have the guts and decency to say so - beforehand & honestly (interesting how men seem to either just not show up without cancelling, or use their moms as an excuse to cancel and then never reschedule. Funny how they think I am stupid enough to believe it. Scary that they are stupid enough to believe I believe it. You would think that nonsense was outgrown in elementary school).

If you live far away, take note: I've already been there, done that with LDRs and I'm not doing it again. If you write me and you live far away, YOU are going to be doing the traveling and potentially moving, so if either of those is not an option for you, don't play that game.

I am not a cougar - so no cubs please. Intelligent, kind, patient, responsible, mature men only need apply.

You start your email with 'Peanut Butter', or some other way to make me know you read the profile. I get a lot of emails that look like they could have been sent to absolutely anyone or everyone.

If you rated me highly, don't be shy...drop me a line.