Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You know how to put 2 sentences together. You want to get to know
someone amazing and out of the box. You get that everyone over the
age of 4 has baggage and that in truly relating to another human
being, you each take a side and carry.
If you are going to write and talk and give me reason to believe
you might actually be a good guy and then vanish before we meet -
go back to your wife (because I figure you're married if you're
playing that game) and don't write me. If you really are a good
guy, and single, write me. If we make plans to get together...and
you change your mind or can't make it - don't be a coward. Have the
guts and decency to say so - beforehand & honestly (interesting
how men seem to either just not show up without cancelling, or use
their moms as an excuse to cancel and then never reschedule. Funny
how they think I am stupid enough to believe it. Scary that they
are stupid enough to believe I believe it. You would think that
nonsense was outgrown in elementary school).
If you live far away, take note: I've already been there, done that
with LDRs and I'm not doing it again. If you write me and you live
far away, YOU are going to be doing the traveling and potentially
moving, so if either of those is not an option for you, don't play
I am not a cougar - so no cubs please. Intelligent, kind, patient,
responsible, mature men only need apply.
You start your email with 'Peanut Butter', or some other way to
make me know you read the profile. I get a lot of emails that look
like they could have been sent to absolutely anyone or
If you rated me highly, don't be shy...drop me a line.