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25 Kingwood, TX Woman


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  • Ages 18-28
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5' 9" (1.75m)
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Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Here's the cold hard truth: I'm 25, I have Fibromyalgia and am disabled. I say this in an attempt at full disclosure because there are people out there who openly admit that they don't want to be with someone who has a chronic illness that limits that person in some way or another. I don't hold such a preference against anyone but I also don't want to spend a significant amount of time getting to know someone who feels that way because its a waste of time and energy for all parties involved. What I have is a controversial disorder or disease. It's controversial because there are large portions of the medical community that seem to believe that people who claim to be in immense pain all the time are not telling the truth. I've heard Fibromyalgia sufferers be called lazy, that the problem is all in their head and that if they'd just exercise, they wouldn't be in pain all the time. The experience has left me with a deep sense of empathy for those dealing with equally chronic and time consuming disorders. I've always been an HONEST person and bent over backwards for others. I have always worked hard at every job I've ever worked and I've been a massage therapist for more than five years. I'd rather be making my own way than letting others take care of me financially. But here I am, unable to work from the immensity of my pain. I have a few good days and a few bad days. I had to drop out of university and move back home with my mother due to my illness. I'm not asking anyone to feel sorry for me or having an un-ending pitty party; I divulge this very personal situation because I want anyone who might message me to know that there are extenuating circumstances that control my day to day existence.

In some ways I'm lonely for a companion. I miss having someone to talk to and laugh with and maybe even someone to cuddle with. I would love to have a sex life but right now that feels really impossible. Even more now because of how my health limits my abilities, I only want to get involved with someone who values more than just sex. Friends first is the only thing I can handle and only after friends could I offer more.

I just had to get this off my chest. I've met others who share my disease and many of them have reported that people they thought loved them left them over their illness. This has taught me that I can't burden anyone with my illness and even though I have the greatest desire to live fully and deeply I'm limited. I have to be careful who comes in my life.

I am a good girl with a big heart. Treat me with respect and I will return the same courtesy. Do not even bother talking to me if all you want is sex. Go to the Strip joint and have a blast if you want to find an easy slut, but I'm not one of them. I'm not a free lay.

I'm still a dork, that hasn't changed. And there is ALWAYS a lot going on in my head and my life.
I'm a deep thinker, which inevitably will lead to my down fall (kidding). I'm an intellectual and good stimulating conversation makes me happy. More often than not I start the conversation and dominate it. (I try not to, just can't help it sometimes.. I'm working on it. Can't help being smart. lol) I'm witty, sarcastic and my humor can be a bit dry. I find humor in everything and I know how to laugh at myself even though I take myself seriously. I'm self motivated, and independent. I'm probably a little arrogant (and that's probably genetic. I take after my father in that respect).

I am Witty, Analytical, and Dry-Humored
What I’m doing with my life
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I've had to put my educational goals on hold recently due to be diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome/Fibromyalgia in conjunction with Degenerative Disc Syndrome. I went from high school to Lone Star Community College before I transferred into Texas A&M University to pursue two bachelors of science degrees in nutritional sciences and horticulture. I'm deeply fascinated with the human body and how it interacts with its environment, but I am reconsidering my plan to attend Medical school after I complete my bachelors; I keep watching the Obamacare mess wondering if it'll even be worth pursuing a medical degree. I think the desire to be a doctor stems from my fascination with the human body, my desire to help people and my desire to be taken seriously and be respected. There's a lot of good someone like me with my brains and my ambitions could do for the average person.
:( I used to work out as much as I could as often as I had the energy to do so but energy to run 5 miles 5 days a week isn't there at the moment and now my health is so bad I can't work out like I used to. I used to love getting on a treadmill or an elliptical machine and run till I was tired but that's not a possibility anymore.
On a good day, I like to play pool. Nights in playing board games are awesome. I love to write for my own personal enjoyment. One of my good friends says I need to write erotic novels for a living but eh, we shall see.... Maybe one day I'll make money off that talent. I'm always open to meeting new people with similar interests and trying new things or 'educational' experiences. Museums anyone?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Puzzles, games or anything based on logic. Not so much math, but logic and probability. I LOVE Board games. Always love new board game buddies. I'm a pretty good cook if I do say so myself. It depends on the day how good I am at it, but I love to play pool! Play with me? lol jk. Depending on your definition of dancing, that is negotiable too. :) I'm good at checkers, NOT CHESS. Figure that one out. *grins and laughs* :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I tend to be a bit shy and quiet until I get used to my surroundings. Then I get comfortable with people and its hard to know just what I will say, whether it will be graphic, odd or abrupt. Generally be prepared for anything to come out of my mouth when I start a sentence with "Ya know" or "I kid you not, I..."
I wish I had more shame, but I don't. Sex and just about every other topic of conversation is free game with me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books, I shall never be able to express the value of every printed page I read! I read more non fiction than fiction and I'd have to check my Shelfari Bookshelf to even remember what I've read lately but for starters, I love The Great Gatsby, Wuthering Heights, Twilight (the whole series especially book 3), Wicked, Jemima J, Mr. Maybe, Fourplay, The House Next door, THe Works of Edgar Allen Poe. Most of my nonfiction books are along the topics of health, nutrition, medicine, social sciences, politics, etc.
TV: I Love HOUSE M.D., Boston Legal, Glee, Burn Notice, Royal Pains (woohoo! new season!), CSI Miami, NCIS, just wish I could find the time to actually watch my shows.
Movies, love movies, Comedy, Romance, Historical movies, some fantasy, Action. Love it all but don't really have Favorite movies, just movies I like with actors/actresses I like.

Music I like it all, I need some more exposure to classical, but I thoroughly enjoy what I've been exposed to, I like pop, jazz, hip-hop, SOME rap, alternative, rock, some latin, generally I like most music. Lately I've really been really hung up on All Time Low. Just really grooving to "Come one, Come All" lately. Makes a great song to sprint to; ya know, treadmill on a speed of 8.5 or 9.0. :)

Food I'll try anything once. I love sushi, can't stomach mexican food for the most part (only the chips ,tortillas, and queso) and end up eating italian and japanese/chinese ALOT.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Creature Comforts
Good Company
Good Books
Great food (dark chocolate... Hot Tea... Chicken Noodle Soup)
Sadly I'm glued to my cell phone and Ipod. So maybe thats seven. oh well.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I tend to think deeply about People, pondering life and the little things that matter. I probably think too much
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably home, taking care of things and trying to stay out of trouble. What do people actually do on a "typical Friday night"? I don't think I know what that is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I am getting really sick of feeling like the only good men I'll ever have in my life are my two cats. Just feel like every time a man opens his mouth to speak to me bullshit is flying out.

I really crave a deep emotional and mental bond with a person I plan to sleep with, other wise what's the point of real sex with out brain sex? It just doesn't last... I had a long relationship during my adolescence into adulthood with an older guy. He wanted us to get married, me to move to NYC to be with him and I wanted him to grow up. After 8years, I dumped him and ever since I've missed the intimacy you have with someone. In the private space of the bedroom when you can be your most vulnerable and passionate the most beautiful experiences can happen. I miss the kisses and making out and I miss the physical warmth of sharing a bed with a good man... ah C'est pas bon mal et C'est la Vie....

I've kinda realized I'm a sucker for tall blue eyed men. Something about blues eyes radiates trustworthiness and yet blue eyed men are the best liars.
You should message me if
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if you have high expectation for yourself and those you spend time with then we could talk.
I have found someone I am now involved with romantically, but if you would just like a good friends, someone to talk to about anything, I'm available to platonic friendship.