Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up in Santa Cruz & have lived in SF or Oakland for most
of my life; I love it here. I also love traveling and doing stuff
out in nature like everyone else on okc. Also I like going out and
having a good time
I am actually not lying about how I'd be up for finding new friends
too - I have been feeling a lack of male friends in life.
Oh, this seems to be important to people so I am an INFP. And I am
5'6." And I know I need more pictures - it's on my to-do list.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working (lawyer for artists & nonprofits), taking tons of
boxing classes (as exercise/therapy, not a real vocation), spending
lots of time being a friend (super important to me), reading books,
idly contemplating that national novel writing month, trying to
understand how dating works.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I read quickly - I think that's less impressive now that I'm not in
school, but sometimes comes in handy. People either think I am the
funniest person they've ever met or they don't get any of my jokes
and think I'm a moron. I'm pretty easy to get along with and I'm
good at making random beaurocrats do me favors.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I read that new murakami book in one voracious weekend, so
am obsessed with him like everyone else. Other recent books: little
failure, brief wonderous life of Oscar Wao (junot Diaz is awesome;
I think I am late to that particular party). I just bought
americanah and some new translation of old Dostoevsky (red flag
that I am a pretentious ass?oh well). Super fan of this guy edward
p. Jones. Generally I like fiction, autobiography, and well-written
stuff about history and whatnot. Right now I have been reading
random trashy articles on my phone and no books, which is kind of
Movies: I will have to revisit this. I love good quality movies and
also formulaic action movies with explosions and well choreographed
fights. Bonus points for prison fights.
Shows: I don't have cable but I watch game of thrones and orange is
the new black. What should I rent on Netflix? Please advise. Oh, I
watch hockey sometimes - or listen to it on the radio like a weirdo
because of the no cable thing.
Music: I like old blues, r&b, punk, peppy girl bands, hip hop,
outlaw country, some singer-songwriter type stuff or anything sung
by men with gravelly voices, some of that newer stuff on the
college radio ... So, everything?
Food: fish tacos, steak, pho, udon, scotch, barbecued things, home
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends & family. 2. Gps on my phone (I was a terrible
friend/family member before gps). 3. Some kind of vigorous exercise
to keep me sane. 4. Delicious food. 5. Something to read. 6. The
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lists of things to do, how to optimize life generally, how are
various people in my life doing, what should I make for lunch
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Al fresco dining/drinking, checking out a show of some kind, or
chilling out at home with some nice dinner and Otis Redding.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to be out and about with me.
Also my number one thing is I like guys who are smart.
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.