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39 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:00am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I grew up in Santa Cruz & have lived in SF or Oakland for most of my life; I love it here. I also love traveling and doing stuff out in nature like everyone else on okc. Also I like going out and having a good time

I am actually not lying about how I'd be up for finding new friends too - I have been feeling a lack of male friends in life.

Oh, this seems to be important to people so I am an INFP. And I am 5'6." And I know I need more pictures - it's on my to-do list.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working (lawyer for artists & nonprofits), taking tons of boxing classes (as exercise/therapy, not a real vocation), spending lots of time being a friend (super important to me), reading books, idly contemplating that national novel writing month, trying to understand how dating works.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I read quickly - I think that's less impressive now that I'm not in school, but sometimes comes in handy. People either think I am the funniest person they've ever met or they don't get any of my jokes and think I'm a moron. I'm pretty easy to get along with and I'm good at making random beaurocrats do me favors.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I read that new murakami book in one voracious weekend, so am obsessed with him like everyone else. Other recent books: little failure, brief wonderous life of Oscar Wao (junot Diaz is awesome; I think I am late to that particular party). I just bought americanah and some new translation of old Dostoevsky (red flag that I am a pretentious ass?oh well). Super fan of this guy edward p. Jones. Generally I like fiction, autobiography, and well-written stuff about history and whatnot. Right now I have been reading random trashy articles on my phone and no books, which is kind of lame.

Movies: I will have to revisit this. I love good quality movies and also formulaic action movies with explosions and well choreographed fights. Bonus points for prison fights.

Shows: I don't have cable but I watch game of thrones and orange is the new black. What should I rent on Netflix? Please advise. Oh, I watch hockey sometimes - or listen to it on the radio like a weirdo because of the no cable thing.

Music: I like old blues, r&b, punk, peppy girl bands, hip hop, outlaw country, some singer-songwriter type stuff or anything sung by men with gravelly voices, some of that newer stuff on the college radio ... So, everything?

Food: fish tacos, steak, pho, udon, scotch, barbecued things, home cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends & family. 2. Gps on my phone (I was a terrible friend/family member before gps). 3. Some kind of vigorous exercise to keep me sane. 4. Delicious food. 5. Something to read. 6. The ocean.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lists of things to do, how to optimize life generally, how are various people in my life doing, what should I make for lunch tomorrow.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Al fresco dining/drinking, checking out a show of some kind, or chilling out at home with some nice dinner and Otis Redding.
You should message me if
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If you want to be out and about with me.

Also my number one thing is I like guys who are smart.