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rcsfo40

40 / M / gay / Single

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Other
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am intelligent, funny, and compassionate.

My Self-Summary

After a long break, I am ready for serious dating and finding the right guy to build a life together. If I meet new friends along the way, all the better.

I am a bit rusty with dating, but have a lot to offer. I am intelligent, compassionate, a good communicator/listener, and many say I have a great sense of humor. I like to balance my day job of being political/wanting to save the world with tons of free time and having fun. I love urban environments and nature equally, nights out and staying in. I lean more towards enjoying intimate encounters with one person than big group outings, but comfortable with both.

Looking for guys around my age (just turned 40) who enjoy some of the following: SF Giants, film, theater, travel, urban walks, hiking, running, politics, quality conversation. My ideal match would have some/all of these qualities: intelligence, sense of humor, gentleness, independence, good communicator.

What I’m doing with my life

In my day job, I am director of public policy at a national non-profit. I also ensure I have enough time for friends, family, fun, nature, etc. Try to stay fit with running, gym, hiking. Also into film, theater, urban walks, chilling at home, exploring new restaurants, travel.

I’m really good at

lots of stuff but I'm not the type to spell it all out.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile or the funny way I walk.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies (this year): 500 Days of Summer, Extract, An Education.

Movies (previous): Squid and the Whale, Half Nelson, Rosemary's Baby, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Ice Storm, Repulsion, Slumdog Millionaire

Music: Stevie Nicks, Dolly Parton, Emmylou Harris, Lucinda Williams, Conor Oberst, Killers, Maria McKee, Shirley Bassey, Cyndi Lauper, Pet Shop Boys, Annie Lennox

Food: Sushi, vietnamese, fried seafood, any seafood actually, BLTs, blueberries, Reese's peanut butter cups, and much more.

Books: Too many to name - latest favorite is A Thousand Splendid Suns

The six things I could never do without

my cat (is that a thing?), coffee, Pandora, New Yorker, Trader Joe's, string cheese

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what I want my 40's to look like.

On a typical Friday night I am

exhausted from a long week and usually just have dinner with friends or watch a movie at home. I like early Friday nights so I can get up on Saturday morning and get to the gym.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm going to the David Archuleta holiday concert on Nov. 30th.

You should message me if

Any of the above interests you and you are serious about dating and possible relationship.