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readingjohnnewm

39 / M / Straight / Single

Astoria, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:09pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I grew up in a small town in Tennessee, and I've lived in New York 11 years. What people say: "But you don't have an accent!" My career is science and engineering, but I'm not really a gadget person. Young me thought he would grow up to write or maybe draw comic books. I've been to 48 states. Before graduate school I worked in a smooth jazz club, even though I'm not really into that. Allergic to bullshit. In a good way.
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching, reading Ursula K Le Guin, and listening to Black Sabbath. Science-wise I get to do some cool stuff, but I don't talk about it too much. Lately I'm riding my bike a lot, seeing new places.
I’m really good at
Public speaking. Ask my students, I'm great at it. Also supposedly I'm funny, but my friends might be lying.
The first things people usually notice about me
My curly hair I think.

Do you know the band the Flaming Lips? Sometimes strangers stop me, not to ask me if I'm the Flaming Lips guy (because I'm too young), but to ask me if I know I look like him. Other people I seem to look like: Dennis Miller, Jeremy Davies, Jesus Christ, Rick Danko, 'This buddy of mine.'
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Typical music might be Black Sabbath, Kathleen Edwards, Belle and Sebastian.

Favorite writers as a function of my age: 10: Stephen King; 15: William Gibson; 20: Harlan Ellison; 25: Stephen Crane; 30: James Joyce; 35: J.G. Ballard; Yesterday: Ursula K Le Guin

My favorite painting is La Vie from Picasso's blue period and I used to go sit in front of it all the time. Once I fell asleep there, and that was a great day.
The six things I could never do without
Fall days,
Good people,
Dogs and cats I meet on the street,
Old paperback books,
Yacht Rock episode 10,
Ativan for flying
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether or not I watered the plants
On a typical Friday night I am
Three way tie: Meeting friends, reading in an old man bar, or using a particle accelerator to do experiments
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're a thoughtful type, an absurdist, a lover of 70s rock, you're into science, you like watching the chase scene in Bullitt, if there's something you'd like to tell me ... really there could be many reasons.