I am a kind, playful, soulful, curious, sensual, creative,
adventurous, truth seeking, gentle and fierce woman. I strive to
find a balance between being as present and accepting as I can with
what is while also holding an optimistic vision of what could be. I
enjoying learning, exploring, and helping people to find their
I have a strong ability to offer a safe, spacious and accepting ear
for people and very much need that capacity in my mate.
I am looking for someone who is a seeker, grounded, fun,
spontaneous, willing to be vulnerable and take risks, curious,
creative, kind, takes care of themselves both in the inner and
outer realms, gentle, and cares about others. Someone who is
independent and yet interdependent. Someone who is ready to start
walking down a path of creating a full life of love, learning and
What I’m doing with my life
I am starting a new job doing advocacy counseling and teaching in
the field of domestic violence while slowly building up a
psychotherapy practice working with women. I feel strongly about
helping to decrease violence in the world as well as helping women
to believe more in themselves and step into their personal
I like to dance (mainly free-form), sing, do yoga, be outside as
much as I can (love to hike, camp and do outdoor sports),
read,listen to music, write, have deep conversations and zany
adventures with friends, create/be a part of random acts of
kindness as well as random acts of zany non-violent anarchy, watch
movies, sit and think about life.
I’m really good at
listening and holding space, dancing, seeing many sides of things,
expecting too much of myself (recovering perfectionist), being
The first things people usually notice about me
I have been told my eyes or that I exude a kind presence
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am usually reading books that are about psychology, spirituality,
health. Movies- so hard to pick a favorite- movies that teach me,
move me to deep laughter and/or tears, or sometime just let me zone
out in a fantasy world for a few hours and decompress.
Music- really enjoy being exposed to new music- I am drawn to
seeing more live music these days and seeing who and what is out
there. Food- love to explore and try different foods but also love
and need to be healthy in my choices. I have recently been getting
more into cooking which has been great fun for me.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
developing my business
health and healing
the mind- how to understand it and how to let it go
meeting my partner
the state of the world
On a typical Friday night I am
With the kind of work that I do, I am finding that I like a
relatively quiet Friday evening to recharge for the weekend. That
can include having dinner with friends, watching a movie, reading,
going for a walk. That being said, I am part of a free-form dance
community and often will go and dance on Friday night if I have the
energy. I also will go out to a show now and then.
You should message me if
what I share resonates with you.
if you are interested and looking for a long term
if you are a man of depth as well as playful.