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ready_set_82

27 / M / straight / Single

Durham, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
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Sign
Education
Working on Ph.D program
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Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am funny, intelligent, and a tad indecisive.

My Self-Summary

So after deleting this thing several times, I am going to try another tactic...

I like having passionate conversations and pointless debates. I wish I played darts more, but I also wish I was better at darts. I have a recurring dream where I take a student loan check, cash it, and go directly to an airport asking for the next flight to Europe. The only reason I want money is so that I don't have to worry about it. I wish I had more friends that were not in grad. school because we are a pretty insular group, but I do have some really great friends. Because I have three older sisters and no brothers, I grew up listening to Sisters With Voices and Fleetwood Mac when my peers were listening to REM and Weezer. As you might have gathered, I was not the coolest kid in junior high. I go through phases where I run regularly, then remember how boring it is, then find it relaxing. I want to buy a bike because I feel like I would ride it places and thus work out in the process of doing stuff. That is the idea at least.

I am a transplant from Illinois that just moved to Durham, and am enjoying getting to know the South--especially the shrimp and grits. Most of my daytime is spent reading, writing, and teaching. I am a PhD student, but I manage to find plenty of time to relax and socialize with friends. I am looking for a person to hangout with and occasionally laugh at my jokes.

What I’m doing with my life

Grad school--I study publics and social movements. For about the last five years I have wanted to be a college professor, and I am still 95% sure about that. I like teaching and researching things that I think are important.

I’m really good at

Golden Tee. It is okay if you don't know what this is--it's the golf video game that usually sits unused in the corner of a bar. I have never played golf, so you might wonder why I ever played Golden Tee. Someday I will tell you the whole story, but for now I will leave some mystery...

The six things I could never do without

I love cooking and long conversations. Although they are hundreds of miles away, I keep in close contact with my family, and always look forward to hanging out with my many nieces and nephews. I have great friends and think that cool summer nights go best with craft beer or dry white wine.

You should message me if

you like Arrested Development. The band or the show.