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readyfor2013

62 F Taos, NM

My Details

Last Online
Aug 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking for a man who is emotionally, intellectually and physically appealing per my somewhat non-standard standards, a gentleman and a scholar (or scientist), a grown up, with a theoretical and speculative turn of mind. A man with whom I can share at least some of these: serious fiction, science fiction, jazz, yoga, the ocean (sailing, swimming, snorkeling, diving) and cooking. I am physically active and youthful, slender, well educated in liberal arts (taught English at the college level) and the sciences (mechanical engineer); I still have the liberal values of my college/hippie days; I enjoy travel, have lived abroad, speak German well and Spanish badly; I want to share and enjoy life, its pleasures and beauties and not waste time. Kindness and graciousness are a must.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it. Making it count.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smart, attractive, gracious, kind, sexy, gentle, slender, physically fit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies:
African Queen, Antonia and Jane, Atlantic City, Best Of Show, Born Yesterday, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, Coal Miners Daughter, Contact, Cries an Whispers, Crimes of Passion, Dark Passage, Dean Spanley, Don Juan Demarco, Dr. Zhivago, Evil Under the Sun, Farewell my Lovely, Flesh, the World and the Devil (have to buy to see it), Gilda, Gloria, Grapes of Wrath, Gray's Anatomy (Spalding Gray), Groundhog Day, Heaven Knows Mr Allison, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Hud, Il bidone (B Crawford amazing), In the Heat of the Night, Invasion of the Body Snatchers, It Happened One Night, K-Pax, Key Largo, La Strada, Lion in Winter, Long Days Journey Into Night, McCabe and Mrs. Miller, Mysterious Skin, Night of the Iguana, Night of the Living Dead, Norma Rae, Off the Map (Taos thing), Pretty Baby, Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Quest for Fire, Requiem for a Dream, Roma, Roman Holiday, Running on Empty, Ryan’s Daughter, Small Time Crooks, Smiles of a Summer Night, Steelyard Blues, The Big Sleep, The Chalk Garden, The Graduate, The Hospital, The Last Picture Show, The Lion, The Opposite of Sex, The Petrified Forest, The Ref, The Ruling Class, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Three Women, Tillsammans, Time After Time, To Kill a Mockingbird, Trixie, Wait Until Dark, Wings of Desire, Wit, Woman Under the Influence, Zorba the Greek.

Books:
The list is so long as to be intimidating to some, intriguing to others, I am working on the right length and balance of choices: "serious literature" (I have read a lot), science fiction (a life long passion, thought not the most recent stuff). No longer have time to read much light weight fiction, but light is good, love P.G.W. (if you know immediately, email me).

Short List for Sci-Fi:
The Basics Everybody starts with: Heinlein (sentimental favorites: Farnham's Freehold, Red Planet, Podkayne, Door into Summer, Number of the Beast), Asimov (Robots, particularly I Robot, and Foundation), Clarke (esp Rendezvous with Rama), Simak (City),
Bradbury (The Martian Chronicles), Herbert, Miller (Canticle for Leibowitz).

Some of My Favorites: Le Guin (Left Hand of Darkness, City of Illusion), Stephenson (Snowcrash, The Diamond Age), Bishop (Transfigurations, Ancient of Days, No Enemy But Time), Tepper (The Gate to Women’s Country), Tanith Lee (Drinking Sapphire Wine), Niven & Pournelle (Mote in God’s Eye), Kaye & Goodwin (Masters of Solitude, Wintermind), Vonnegut (Mother Night).
Varley (everything), Marion Zimmer Bradley (The Shattered Chain, Thendara House, Oath of the Renunciates, Mists of Avalon (but Mary Stewart is even better for Arthurian Saga)). Zenna Henderson. I recently read David Brin's Kiln People and it is quite a book, very entertaining, but also leaves you this lots to ponder.

Music: Jazz first, rock second, then old rock and roll and folk, gypsy music, some country, not much into classical. For Jazz there are just too many greats to mention. I am biased towards horn players: John Coltrance and Miles Davis, of course, also Stan Getz, Lester Young, Hank Crawford, Chet Baker and Clifford Brown (and many others). For piano I particularly like Ahmad Jamal, also Keith Jarret, Dave Brubeck and others. For Guitar Kenny Burrell and Pat Metheny. Vocalists: Billie Holiday, Maria Muldaur (if you don't know her as a Jazz singer, and you like jazz, you should), Sarah Vaughan, Eva Cassidy, Rod Stewart, Dinah Washington, Diane Reeves, Diana Krall, Nancy Wilson, Leon Redbone, Lena Horne, Tom Waits, Diane Schuur, Dr. John, and that's just for starters.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, food, love, kindness, intellectual stimulation, good fiction, not necessarily in that order. And that's six, no room for other pleasures I would hate to do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ideas (which I infinitely prefer to gossip): literature, anthropology, evolution, science, food, sex, neurology, psychology, theology.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably cooking and listening to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am using an online dating service.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If my profile interests you, you read fiction (and think it's important) and you like jazz, and you didn't answer any of these sex questions the wrong way as per my answers:

Do you enjoy meaningless sex?
No. What would make it meaningless? You? Supplying the meaning is one of the most important aspects of being human.

Is "foreplay" necessary for good sex?
For a woman to answer this question negatively seems incomprehensible to me. For a man to do so is the equivalent of saying in his profile "the pleasure of my partner is a matter of indifference to me." But that seems to be the answer most men give. I'd prefer they didn't contact me.

Would you date someone just for the sex?
No. It couldn't be very good sex if he didn't stimulate me emotionally or intellectually.