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57 Mahwah, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 49–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:38pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly other
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
2015 is the year for change and enjoying life. I'd like to find the right partner to do that with. I live in Northern NJ, work remotely but the office is in NYC.
Finding a real, honest, caring, good man, who is not bipolar :-) is not as easy as it seems.....

******I'm adding this paragraph because for some reason, on this site, all the 20 and 30 yr olds write me. I am looking for someone I can develop a relationship with, who is my own age. I am 56... So, if you're in your 20's and 30's, I appreciate the flattering remarks but please move on. Thanks everyone... *******

I'm looking for...pure and simple...a GOOD man (and there must be chemistry). Someone who believes in a real relationship. He makes me feel special, as I do to him... Building upon friendship, enjoying each other's company....He says what he feels and means what he says. (Communication is key...Making EACH OTHER feel special is key)...He's honest. Starting with your profile...Please be honest with your age. I am.....Why is every man 49, on here? I want to find the guy, who would be satisfied with a real relationship and taking the time to develop that relationship (not looking for a dating frenzy) with me and see if there's something there. I believe you're put on this earth to love and be loved.

A little about me:
I'm a sensitive, sensual and loving woman. What you see is what you get. If you like what you see..that is who I am.
I love to have fun but can be serious as well. I love to smile and laugh with my partner. Truly being able to just enjoy each other's company is key. I love the hot weather. Anything over 75 degrees is perfect for me. The beach, the sun, the gym/working out/spinning, hiking, NYC, Plays, baseball (particularly the NY Mets): All make me happy! My appearance and actions do not reflect my age. I've been told I look 7-8 yrs younger than my age, but the key is I FEEL 7-8 yrs younger! I can do everything myself, if necessary, but would love for a man to be an important part of my life.

So, let's get started. Hesitation doesn't get you there. If you don't write me, we may never meet. Please have a picture, so I can look into your eyes, as you are mine. I would love to hear your voice also, as that says so much! I'm not looking to talk on the phone or email for weeks on end. Let's see if there's something there.
What I’m doing with my life
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I want to lIVE my life..take in new things, old things and enjoy every minute of it!!! My dream is to go to Australia. Have you been there or want to go??? I'm not a motorcycle lover, so if you're looking for someone to ride the back of your Harley, that's not me...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
talking and dealing with people. I'm very outgoing and can talk with people of all socioeconomic levels.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
are my eyes, my smile and my voice...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children...27, 24 and 21
The Beach
warm weather - 75 degrees or higher
Spin Class
Pinot Grigio
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When I'm moving to Fl....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's private for a reason...
You should message me if
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If you're a good guy, looking for a great woman