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57 • Mahwah, NJ • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 49–60
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 8:38pm
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Judaism, but not too serious about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Strictly monogamous
- Has kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
Finding a real, honest, caring, good man, who is not bipolar :-) is not as easy as it seems.....
******I'm adding this paragraph because for some reason, on this site, all the 20 and 30 yr olds write me. I am looking for someone I can develop a relationship with, who is my own age. I am 56... So, if you're in your 20's and 30's, I appreciate the flattering remarks but please move on. Thanks everyone... *******
I'm looking for...pure and simple...a GOOD man (and there must be chemistry). Someone who believes in a real relationship. He makes me feel special, as I do to him... Building upon friendship, enjoying each other's company....He says what he feels and means what he says. (Communication is key...Making EACH OTHER feel special is key)...He's honest. Starting with your profile...Please be honest with your age. I am.....Why is every man 49, on here? I want to find the guy, who would be satisfied with a real relationship and taking the time to develop that relationship (not looking for a dating frenzy) with me and see if there's something there. I believe you're put on this earth to love and be loved.
A little about me:
I'm a sensitive, sensual and loving woman. What you see is what you get. If you like what you see..that is who I am.
I love to have fun but can be serious as well. I love to smile and laugh with my partner. Truly being able to just enjoy each other's company is key. I love the hot weather. Anything over 75 degrees is perfect for me. The beach, the sun, the gym/working out/spinning, hiking, NYC, Plays, baseball (particularly the NY Mets): All make me happy! My appearance and actions do not reflect my age. I've been told I look 7-8 yrs younger than my age, but the key is I FEEL 7-8 yrs younger! I can do everything myself, if necessary, but would love for a man to be an important part of my life.
So, let's get started. Hesitation doesn't get you there. If you don't write me, we may never meet. Please have a picture, so I can look into your eyes, as you are mine. I would love to hear your voice also, as that says so much! I'm not looking to talk on the phone or email for weeks on end. Let's see if there's something there.
warm weather - 75 degrees or higher
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