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39 West Greenwich, RI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:13am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think talking about myself sucks! But I have to, so here it is-
I'm a curious explorer. I'm honest and straightforward. I value honesty, sincerity, generosity, kindness, trust and sense of humor in people. I have a philosophical and scientific bent, I analyze claims, deeds, ideas, thoughts, cultures, politics thoroughly and think about every minute aspect of life. I'm a geek and live in my brain. Truth is very important to me. Therefore, I'm a skeptic and an atheist.

I'm a strict man-woman "equalist". I do not appreciate stereo typing any sex and I do not appreciate looking down upon any.
I'm married but we're polyamorous. This means that we're open to having other people in our lives. Single ladies or single men or couples are welcome in our lives. We're both straight. We recently moved to Rhode Island from another state where we had to leave behind a couple we were dating. They have since broken up.

This is my self summary. I will come and edit this section if I think of more later. Meanwhile, please email me with any questions.

I do realize that I do not have a picture of me on the profile. This is purely to keep our jobs and personal lives separate. We're both working professionals. I'll be happy to send a pic when requested.

Update 02/19/2015
Wife has been living with her boyfriend in Indiana for last 3 months. We are currently contemplating how all us can live together. This potentially means that we'll be living as a family. I think it is important to mention here that all three of us are straight.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an engineer by profession. Half of my time is spent at work or thinking about work. I try to be creative in my professional and personal life and love thinking outside the box.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Breaking the ice. Making a stupid joke.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I do not know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These things change frequently as I love to experiment.
Currently, Books- by Richard Dawkins, Massimo Pigulicci
Music- Rock of the likes of Guns N Roses
Food- Indian, Thai and Mexican
Inspiring movies such as Shawshank Redemption and thoughtful sci fi movies such as Gattaca, Soylent Green and I,Robot
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
One thing- Internet. (Assuming basic necessities in life for food shelter and travel are met.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about my loved ones- my wife, my friends and my family. If I'm in a relationship, I spend a lot of time thinking about my girlfriend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working or wasting time
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I fantasize a lot about us (me and my wife) being in love with a couple where the ladies are the best friends and the men are the best friends and there is not a shred of jealousy in our relationships. I think that this would make me incredibly happy.
You should message me if
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You have read my profile. You value what I value- honesty, sincerity, generosity, kindness, trust and sense of humor . You know about polyamory and understand what it is. It doesn't matter to me if you're married or single.