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52 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 24
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English, German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Meyers-Briggs: ENTJ

I am:
*Geeky and artistic. Yeah, go figure.
*Strong advocate of consent culture
*Trying to live in the moment
*Fond of music in most genres
*Excited over simple things and beauty
*In awe of complex things and creativity
*Whiskey cocktails or beer with a friend in the South East
*Karaoke. Not as much lately, but up for it!
*Grateful for my amazing friends
*Lucky to be gifted in many ways
*Love to hike
*Love to sing
*Love to dance
*Shibari enthusiast
*Sex positive, open, ethically non-monogamous.
*Just as impressed by art as I am by science and know they must meet on a plane beyond my understanding

I firmly believe that we are the product of our influences. We should choose them wisely.

I define stupidity not as a judgment on one's education, but on one's unwillingness to open their mind.

I believe in the concept of yes means yes. No means no is the wrong approach. Consent is not the absence of a no it's the presence of a yes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Discovering new interests. Taking something away from every experience.

Oh, and trying to find more places that specialize in classic cocktails.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating. - and getting better at it.

Listening. - and getting better at it. ;)

Showing affection and intimacy.

Knowing my limits.

Cooking. I especially enjoy preparing meals together.

Hitting 'send' way too soon.

Finding creative and unusual uses for standard household items.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a very direct, honest, clear communication style. No pretense.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't own a TV and rarely stream stuff, but when I do, I like anything by Joss Whedon. Or there's, Weeds, Girls, True Blood. Just finished the first season of Orange is the new Black. I prefer indie films to mainstream. If it won an award at Cannes, it's a good bet I'll enjoy it.

Music is really all over the board. I can geek out on the Bach Double or the Cello suites, head bang to Mozart or get all teary eyed over Domingo singing Carmen. I can enjoy classic rock, not too much Zeppelin though. Get my alt on with Exploding Boy, Front 242, LadyTron, Sisters of Mercy, Bjork or just chill with some Beats Antique. Modern Country? No. Old time Country? Sure. Just let me free your doubtful mind and melt your cold, cold heart.

I mostly read non-fiction, like some stuff by Jay Wiseman and others. I'm currently diving into Opening Up as it came highly recommended. I would love to dive into the Russian novels.

Good pub food
Good ethnic food (anything Indian, Thai, Vietnamese).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Core group of friends
The beauty that is the world we live in.
Good communication
Intelligence/Intelligent people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How many pockets of matter, such as the sum of the Big Bang contents, exist in an infinite universe.

How our bodies change their molecules every few years and molecules can store information, does this not speak to the notion of collective consciousness?

How our attachment style affects our adult relationships.

Connection and energy exchange.

Rope Arts.

Our core beliefs and their relationship with neural pathways.

Sex, intimacy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? I'm usually at my Children's house 2/3 of my Fridays. Pizza and movie night. :) I do make it out on some Fridays. There are lots of cool events, dancing, shows, fun creative hobbies. Portland is an amazing city. I love to experience it with others
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I figured I'd encrypt my most private thing with an MD5 Hash:

You should message me if
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You think outside the box, are adventurous and open to new experiences.

If you wear chemical-based perfumes, it's doubtful we'll have much in common.

You're curious about the creative uses for those standard household items.

If you'd like to experience sensual rope bondage with a safe, skilled, consensual practitioner. Or if you're interested in attending a local rope event with me.

You are kind, caring and accepting of others, because of your essential nature, not because you're trying to earn "Get out of Hell" tokens.