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Divorced now coming up on four years and have a very mature,
amicable relationship with my ex. I've been in and out of a couple
relationships with some amazing women since. I'm looking for a
connection with a smart, fun, bratty and playful woman who has been
in enough relationships to have a good understanding of herself and
what her needs are and the importance of clear communication. I
prefer to discuss and define terms of open relationships, but I
don't identify as a polyamorist necessarily. I haven't yet met the
single person who would make me feel otherwise. Maybe you're out
there. Currently, I'm not looking for anything long-term and
permanent, as I feel my life doesn't lend itself to having enough
time and availability right now, so this wouldn't be fair to
I'm working as a senior-level Technology professional for an
I firmly believe that we are the product of our influences. We
should choose them wisely.
I find myself questioning the social norms.
I have a bit of a devious side too. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to balance my career with my real life and interests.
Enjoying hobbies and outdoor activities.
Traveling to cool places when I can. This year it was East coast
twice, Dallas, Hawaii, England and Scotland.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating. - and getting better at it.
Listening. - and getting better at it. ;)
Being a good friend. - I care for those I'm close
Over thinking stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not sure, I don't ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't own a TV and rarely stream stuff, but when I do, I like
anything by Joss Whedon. Or there's, Weeds, Girls, True Blood,
Breaking Bad, OITNB - first season at least, The Newsroom. I prefer
indie / art films to mainstream. One of my recent favorite films is
Marilyn Hotchkiss Ballroom Dancing.
Music is really all over the board. Seems like lately it's been,
Train, Third eye blind, Nickelback, Saving Abel, Puddle of Mudd,
Eve 6, Matchbox 20, others. Some classic rock. Swing. I also love
classical, mostly Baroque.
I mostly read non-fiction, trade journals, self improvement,
business theory. I've recently read some Bill Bryson. I like his
style. The Walk in the Woods movie trailer was bit disappointing.
If you have a recommendation for a some good literature, I'd love
to hear about it.
Portland has some great options. I'm a whiskey drinker and if a
place makes a good boulevardier, there's a good bet the menu is
Also, Indian, Thai, Vietnamese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet and social media.
Core group of friends.
Open minded, progressive thinking.
Wit, humor, banter, intelligent conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That next shoot!
Connection and power exchange.
How much is that next flight to Europe?
Our core beliefs and their relationship with neural pathways.
Sex, intimacy. More specifically, those almost hidden qualities
that make up intense, undeniable physical chemistry.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I spend half my Fridays with my kids. On off weekends, it's usually
at an event or a show. But I don't think I have what's considered
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I tend to over think and get up in my head about certain things.
It's something I'm noticing more and working on.
You should message me if
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You're positive and see the best in people.
You're looking for a relationship to start slow and see where it
You think outside the box, are adventurous and open to new
If you're a modern day Hedy Lamarr!
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