Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*Geeky and artistic. Yeah, go figure.
*Strong advocate of consent culture
*Trying to live in the moment
*Fond of music in most genres
*Excited over simple things and beauty
*In awe of complex things and creativity
*Whiskey cocktails or beer with a friend in the South East
*Karaoke. Not as much lately, but up for it!
*Grateful for my amazing friends
*Lucky to be gifted in many ways
*Love to hike
*Love to sing
*Love to dance
*Sex positive, open, ethically non-monogamous.
I'm a senior-level Technology professional. But please don't ask me
to talk about technology. I'd rather talk about your eyes. :)
I firmly believe that we are the product of our influences. We
should choose them wisely.
I define stupidity not as a judgment on one's education, but on
one's unwillingness to open their mind.
I believe in the concept of yes means yes. No means
no is the wrong approach. Consent is not the absence of a
no it's the presence of a yes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to balance my career with my real life and interests. (my
career just pays the bills. It's not who I am).
Becoming a skilled Shibari rigger.
Traveling to cool places when I can. This year it was East coast
twice, Dallas for (B.E.D), Hawaii, England and Scotland.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating. - and getting better at it.
Listening. - and getting better at it. ;)
Showing affection and intimacy.
Knowing my limits.
Cooking. I especially enjoy preparing meals together.
Artistic and sensual bondage rigging.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a very direct, honest, clear communication style. No
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't own a TV and rarely stream stuff, but when I do, I like
anything by Joss Whedon. Or there's, Weeds, Girls, True Blood,
Orange is the new Black, The Newsroom. I prefer indie films to
mainstream. If it won an award at Cannes, it's a good bet I'll
Music is really all over the board. Seems like lately it's been,
Train, Third eye blind, Nickelback, Saving Abel, Puddle of Mudd,
Eve 6, Matchbox 20, others. Some classic rock. Swing. I also love
classical, mostly Baroque.
I mostly read non-fiction, like some stuff by Jay Wiseman and
others. I'm currently diving into Opening Up as it came
highly recommended. I would love to dive into the Russian
Good pub food
Good ethnic food (anything Indian, Thai, Vietnamese).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've worked a lot on my needs, wants and desires list. Anyone can
state what they don't want. But few of us can clearly state what we
do want and to bring our needs, wants and desires into the
Core group of friends
The beauty that is the world we live in.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Communication style, particularly in relationships.
How our attachment style affects our adult relationships.
Connection and power exchange.
Our core beliefs and their relationship with neural pathways.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I spend half my Fridays with my kids. On off weekends, it's usually
at an event or a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can be a sappy romantic and there are times I can be vulnerable.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're positive and see the best in people.
You think outside the box, are adventurous and open to new
If you wear chemical-based perfumes, it's doubtful we'll have much
If clear, open communication is your thing.
If you'd like to experience sensual rope bondage with a safe,
skilled, consensual practitioner. Or if you're interested in
attending a local rope event with me.
You are kind, caring and accepting of others, because of your
essential nature, not because you're trying to earn "Get out of
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