Probably should state this up front! I am the wrong guy to date if
you want someone that is boring, does things exactly the same way
every time, or is always on time. I am too passionate for life,
live very intensely, and am a true romantic. I know how to open
doors and know when to stand at the table; proving that Chivalry is
not dead (Yes, I have two incredible parents that have been married
for 50 years!).
You must enjoy life, testing the limits, and finding romance
That said, my friends would describe me as an upbeat outgoing
person, with a passion for paddling Dragonboat and Inline Skating ,
as well as, rock climbing, cycling, Snow/Water Skiing, weight
training,... anything keeping me active. I have lived in Texas,
China, and now Hong Kong.
I believe it is important to work hard, then come home and play
hard in activities that energize me.
Very passionate about things that I believe in, Always working to
grow as a person and to learn to not take "life" for granted, I
like to read books about health, fitness, and psychology. I also
love to cook, just lay around sometimes, or get outdoors and work
up a sweat.
Finally....I work to LIVE, not live to WORK and define myself not
by my job, but by what I get pleasure in. I believe in living for
the moment, enjoying each breath of fresh air, and trying to not
take life too seriously.
I feel that an ideal match isn't something that can be defined, I
think that it is something that is discovered.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a lover, a dreamer, a believer of magic.
I bought the copyrights on the fantasy of living happily ever after
despite the monumental efforts of the real world to protect me from
I have taken every chance I have had to learn to
wonder.......Perhaps it is simply 'wonder why I do this' or 'wonder
when lunch is' but mostly it has been taking a big bite of the
juiciness and letting it dribble down my chin kind of
I laugh harder, cry louder, and dream deeper than ever before in my
life and I wouldn't exchange a bit of the pain for a day of life
inside the lines.
I’m really good at
Anything I set my mind on... I love paddling Dragonboat, kayak,
standup board (SUP). My love is coaching someone to be better,
whether it is inline skating, nutrition, life, or dating. I love to
see the flicker of understanding in their eyes. Teaching
communication at all levels, through voice, tone, and body
The first things people usually notice about me
My INTENSITY... and PASSION. haha. I love life. I think that each
day brings a new day to discover more strengths and learn from your
weaknesses. Success teaches nothing, but failure lets you learn and
grow, so that the next time you will be closer to success.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books...I love The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, Illusion by Richard
Bach, Incognito (a book about the brain and why we think as we
Movies... Without Limits, Chasing Amy, Princess Bride, Straight A's
.. Each of these has a deeper meaning to me.
Shows... Big Bang Theory and The Mentalist
Music... All types since I used to be a DJ, i prefer "chill music"
now though in my home
Food... I love spicy
The six things I could never do without
1. My Kindle reader (over 200 books on it now)
2. TRX (always ready to work out)
3. Leatherman (Multi Use Tool and Utility Knife for all
4. Vibram's (Love the shoes)
6. PASSION AND LOVE
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What we could do if we didn't believe in limits. How to do
something or say something better the next time. Working to be the
best me that I can be, so I can be the best friend for someone else
On a typical Friday night I am
Preparing for my weekend. Making sure i have everything ready for
the sports or events that are planned. Will normally be at a
networking event, or meeting with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I spent an earlier life being a Night Club Disc Jockey and even
though my pictures are current ... and i am older than you think
You should message me if
You enjoy passion, adventure, and kissing in the rain. I am too
passionate for life, live very intensely, and am a true romantic.
You must enjoy life, testing the limits, and finding romance. If
you enjoy this then you and I will have the most amazing future!