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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 29
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm ready to be discovered again. A simple man with simple needs. I am generally happy and make the best out of nothing (literally) sometimes. Not a big fan of self-assessments. I'm too modest for my own good so I enlisted the help from an ex-GF of mine to give me her BS summary.This is what she said (with bias, of course):
1. I'm picky to a point of being annoying...sometimes (Lies!)
2. Funny and have an amazing sense of humor but I cuss too much (Yes, that's true. Only sometimes)
3. I lack direction/focus/passion in my life (Honestly, I still don't know what the hell this means!?)
4. I've got issues with "commitments" (Another lie); and
5. A momma's boy (that's absolutely true - I love my Moms and Pappi)

Anyway, maybe you'll see things differently?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm your geeky-nerdy IT programmer, a freelancer who decides my own time. I love what I do (flexibility) and enjoy work life the way it should be enjoyed. Living it up or...down depending how you look at it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dishing out fried rice, lamb chops and sushi. Figuring things out. Love solving problems. Got a thing for numbers. I have an uncanny ability to see things beyond their forms. and I'm very good asking the "right" questions. Also, I'm a pretty good kisser. And yes ....I'm really good telling dirty jokes. ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not sure. I'm tall and have hazy light brown eyes, maybe?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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What the fuck is this? I don't keep and limit myself to a list of favorites. But let me summarize this:

1. Absolutely love food. :) I've eaten all kinds long as it doesn't move away from my plate - you bring it on!
2. Only read non-Fiction exclusively; and
3. Love most kind of music except country/folk or anything that doesn't have bass, beats and bumps.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Really!? Six?? C'mon now Cupid....Go figure ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, my next meal, unfinished work commitments, sex (or lack of it), far-away family and friends (some of them at least), my next holiday destination, meal, projects.

I have a wandering mind so I do ask a lot of 'why's instead of 'how's in my life. But always positive self reflections.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing as a typical night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A self taught musician - I play 3 instruments, a "practicing" Buddhist and a big LEGO collector.