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37 F San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:16am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Tired of people asking you if you are married yet? Dating? Boyfriend? Girlfriend? KIDS?!?! Well, for me it is yes and no. While I do appreciate being single and I am happy, I feel that I am ready to move on to the next level of my life. I am ready to answer yes to at least one of those questions that my parents and their friends (and my friends) keep asking me. So, Lets. Do. THIS.

I am pretty easy going person. I am so loyal that it could also be counted as one of my flaws. I am loyal to everyone. I have nieces and nephews that I adore to pieces and who I strive to be a better person for. They make me happy, no matter what. I love my friends and family and love to be surrounded by them because they are so important to me. I am in constant gratitude for the strong support system that I have been blessed with.

I love to run. I ran the 2011 NYC marathon and I would say this far, that it is my greatest accomplishment. It was a lot of hard work to get there and it was totally worth it. I also completed two triathlons in 2013 and the Las Vegas Marathon. I am hoping to knock out two more marathons this year.

I am the type of person who likes to go to a hole in the wall bar and just sit there and people watch. I like to go to sporting events, I LOVE going to the movies (movie popcorn is my weakness) and sometimes, I really enjoy just staying home and catching up on my DVR. If a show can make me literally laugh out loud, then it's a keeper.

Look, this is how it is: I am looking for someone who I can TRUST. If I can't trust you and you know that you can't be trusted, please don't even bother with me. I am at a point in my life where I will just walk away at the first sign of dishonesty...TRUST me. I am also at a point where I need to remember that I am important, too. There are a few things that I would like to accomplish in my life still and I would rather have someone who can support me or join me than hold me back. And most importantly, NO MORE GAMES. I just don't have the time or the patience anymore.

Oh, and one more thing...I'm full blooded Portuguese!

Think you can handle this?
What I’m doing with my life
I just made a career switch from working with incarcerated juveniles to working at a law firm in Palo Alto. Change is good!
I’m really good at
Playing "speed." I don't play it very often but sometimes I will give the kids I work with a run for their money and smash on them every. single. time.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my smile. A lot of money was spent on braces when I was younger so I show these chompers off as much as possible. Cheeeeese!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Okay. I love to read, watch TV and go to the movies. Some of my favorite shows are Breaking Bad (best show, ever, in my opinion), Sherlock, Psych, Burn Notice (pretty much anything on USA or TNT, actually), How I Met Your Mother, The Big Bang Theory (the last two are probably the funniest shows on TV right now, in my opinion), Law and Order SVU and so many others. I really love TV and I am not ashamed to say it. I LOVE going to the movies, too. I love the whole experience of it. The soda, the popcorn, the candy and the theatre. It makes me happy. As for books, I like fiction. I love the True Blood series and I love pretty much any Jodi Picoult book. I loved the Harry Potter series and I loved the Hunger Games series as well.
The six things I could never do without
6. Peanut Butter
5. Diet Coke
4. My running shoes
3. My friends
2. My family
AND #1- Me, myself and I. I am so blessed to have such a great family and support system. I can depend on them for anything, but I like the fact that I am my own person and that I don't know anyone else who is like me. I am not perfect, I am not rich, but I have everything in my life that I need and want.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Well, I don't spend A LOT of time thinking about it but I always wonder why women get all dressed up for the gym. I see them with full on "going to a club" make-up on and can't help but cringe. Don't they know how awful that is for their skin??? I don't want to look 60 when I'm 60 so when I work-out, it is without make-up. Sorry, boys, if that bothers you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hmmm, well, on Friday nights I usually go out to dinner with my sister and her family. But, sometimes I just stay home and catch up on my DVR. Depends on the mood I'm in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I loved Grease 2 even though it really was awful.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You like to laugh, play sports, sing karaoke, run, ride...or if you just think I'm super cool. Because, let's face it. I totally am.