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37 F San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 17
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Tired of people asking you if you are married yet? Dating? Boyfriend? Girlfriend? KIDS?!?! Well, for me it is yes and no. While I do appreciate being single and I am happy, I feel that I am ready to move on to the next level of my life. I am ready to answer yes to at least one of those questions that my parents and their friends (and my friends) keep asking me. So, Lets. Do. THIS.

I am pretty easy going person. I am so loyal that it could also be counted as one of my flaws. I am loyal to everyone. I have nieces and nephews that I adore to pieces and who I strive to be a better person for. They make me happy, no matter what. I love my friends and family and love to be surrounded by them because they are so important to me. I am in constant gratitude for the strong support system that I have been blessed with.

I love to run. I ran the 2011 NYC marathon and I would say this far, that it is my greatest accomplishment. It was a lot of hard work to get there and it was totally worth it. I also completed two triathlons in 2013 and the Las Vegas Marathon.

I am the type of person who likes to go to a hole in the wall bar and just sit there and people watch. I like to go to sporting events, I LOVE going to the movies (movie popcorn is my weakness) and sometimes, I really enjoy just staying home and catching up on my DVR. If a show can make me literally laugh out loud, then it's a keeper.

Look, this is how it is: I am looking for someone who I can TRUST. If I can't trust you and you know that you can't be trusted, please don't even bother with me. I am at a point in my life where I will just walk away at the first sign of dishonesty...TRUST me. NO MORE GAMES. I just don't have the time or the patience anymore.

Oh, and one more thing...I'm full blooded Portuguese!

Think you can handle this?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for the Probation Department. I love my job!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The crossword puzzles in People Magazine. I'm up on my pop culture.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my smile. A lot of money was spent on braces when I was younger so I show these chompers off as much as possible. Cheeeeese!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love to read, watch TV and go to the movies. I have too many favorites of all to name them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
6. Peanut Butter
5. Diet Coke
4. My running shoes
3. My friends
2. My family
AND #1- Me, myself and I. I am so blessed to have such a great family and support system. I can depend on them for anything, but I like the fact that I am my own person and that I don't know anyone else who is like me. I am not perfect, I am not rich, but I have everything in my life that I need and want.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Well, I don't spend A LOT of time thinking about it but I always wonder why women get all dressed up for the gym. I see them with full on "going to a club" make-up on and can't help but cringe. Don't they know how awful that is for their skin??? I don't want to look 60 when I'm 60 so when I work-out, it is without make-up. Sorry, boys, if that bothers you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hmmm, well, on Friday nights I usually go out to dinner with my sister and her family. But, sometimes I just stay home and catch up on my DVR. Depends on the mood I'm in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I loved Grease 2 even though it really was awful.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like to laugh, play sports, sing karaoke, run, ride...or if you just think I'm super cool. Because, let's face it. I totally am.

BUT! You shouldn't message me if the word "Dope" or "69" is anywhere in your profile name (or profile, quite honestly...unless it's because you were born in 1969), if you know you are too young for me (I am no cougar) or if you have a record. And I mean police record. Not an album. And I mean a serious record. If it wasn't something one time, a long time ago, I can deal.

***In the "details" section, it says I have cats. I have A cat. Cats makes me sound like a crazy cat lady.