I am independent, reliable, and ambitious.
My Self-Summary
Simply put, I'm a single girl looking for a single guy. I am not
someone who is rushing to the alter or picking out baby names.
Right now I am just looking for someone to share life's experiences
with.
I am someone who is proactive, who enjoys a challenge, who is not
too dramatic, but who does not run away from emotion. I can
accompany you to a social event where you are the only familiar
face in the room and get along just fine.
I find that as I get older, my routine gets more embedded and I'd
like someone to come into my life and shake things up a bit. I have
an amazing group of friends, but also excited to meet someone who
has the same and would welcome me into that world. I'm ready to
expand my way of life and am excited to find someone to do that
with.
I'm comfortable in my own skin and hanging out with myself. Not in
a loner way... I have plenty of friends and an active social life,
but do enjoy my alone time. I'm the opposite of needy so if you
want a girl who will be hanging all over you, that's not me.
What I’m doing with my life
I am lucky to say that my career is also my passion.
In the last few years I've left corporate America and am working
freelance. I won't lie, it's a hard road. However, after years of
working for other people, I chose to give up the nice salary and
expense account and embark on a life that has made me much
happier.
I do work a lot, but life and work intertwine for me. This doesn't
mean that I'm a workaholic, just that I'm ambitious and realize
that if I don't work hard, I won't achieve the goals I have set out
for myself. Yes, I'm a planner. At least for myself. I set long
term goals and stick to them. Sure, roads diverge and life changes,
but my eyes stay on the prize.
I'd like to find someone who is as equally as driven and passionate
about his career. I know how to make time for my friends and family
and believe that this balance isn't as hard as some make it out to
be.
I’m really good at
coming up with ideas, giving my friends advice, not taking that
advice myself, finding amazing books to read, arts and craft
projects like refurnishing furniture and photography...
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short. Only 5 feet tall. I assume most guys notice that I have
small breasts... just putting it out there.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
The bookstore is one my favorite places. Can't leave without buying
something. Some are: The History of Love, We Need To Talk About
Kevin, anything by Wally Lamb or David Sedaris, The Abstinence
Teacher, Motel Life, The Perks of Being a Wallflower... the list
goes on and on.
I love music and have friends who work in the music business so
often find myself being one of the first people to hear about a new
band. Some of those bands are: Loney, Dear, The Big Pink, The XX,
Bon Iver, Damien Rice, Florence and the Machine, Fanfarlo, Laura
Marling, Wolfe Parade, Frightened Rabbit ...
I'm open to trying any types of food. Have favorite restaurants,
but not necessarily favorite foods. I don't like sushi and yes,
I've tried your favorite place. Everyone always says that if you
don't like sushi then you haven't had it at the right place, but
I've tried them all and still don't like it...
The six things I could never do without
1. my cat
2. my old SLR camera I bought in the 9th grade
3. my mom
4. my patience
5. my sight
6. laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my future. I wonder why I'm still single at 30, not in the woe is
me way, just a natural curiosity. I wonder why people spend more
time online than in person. I don't think that it's hard to meet
people while out in LA, but I do think guys have changed and don't
seem as comfortable offline as they used to. It's a shame if you
ask me. I worry about future generations who have grown up with
text messaging and will develop no social skills...
On a typical Friday night I am
watching a movie or having dinner with friends. If I'm doing
neither of those then I'm being lame at home either reading in my
pjs or going for a late night walk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm a horrible cook. I try and try and try again and I still can't
turn out anything worthwhile.
You should message me if
... I'm not sure. What triggers people to respond to a photo at a
glance? Message me if you enjoy a good glass of wine and can hold
an interesting conversation.
More importantly, message me if you actually want to meet up in
person at some point. I'm finding a lot of guys here just want to
email back and forth, but I get enough emails everyday. Craving the
offline interaction.
Ok, so I hope I've written enough because that's all I got right
now...