Well, I know ONE thing I'm looking for. I'm looking for friends. Recent changes in my life have led to me having some extremely fulfilling partners, and so that is the very least of my concerns anymore. That said, one can never have enough friends, so if you think we'd get along, by all means feel free to say hello.
I am a married man who is polyamorous. I am looking first and foremost for FRIENDS. If you cannot first be my friend though, then please keep looking. Even if you can, expect it to be at least a little while getting to know you first. If you can't take the time, then I apologize for your hurry, but I simply can't rush into anything. I'm not truly seeking partners anyway, so it won't be any skin off my neck if you walk away because friendship isn't important first and foremost.
What one can expect from me if things progress beyond friendship: I am a Dominant in BDSM and have a wide variety of kinks, including bondage and fireplay, to name but two of them. I am not looking for a committed relationship by any means, but I am also not looking for one-night stands. As I said at the beginning: If you can't be my friend first, don't expect more.