I am a married man who is polyamorous. I am looking first and foremost for FRIENDS, as I recently had my secondary relationship end badly... It's time finally to seek more. If you cannot first be my friend though, then please keep looking. Even if you can, expect it to be at least a little while getting to know you first. If you can't take the time, then I apologize for your hurry, but I simply can't rush into anything.
What one can expect from me if things progress beyond friendship: I am a Dominant in BDSM and have a wide variety of kinks, including bondage and fireplay, to name but two of them. I am not looking for a committed relationship by any means, but I am also not looking for one-night stands. As I said at the beginning: If you can't be my friend first, don't expect more.