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42 / F / Straight / Single
San Jose, CA
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 9:12pm
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Type
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
Giving back: I volunteer my time for a counseling agency where I see clients and supervise other counselors. It's peer counseling rather than therapy, and I love it. Companioning people as they heal is a great honor.
Personally: I spend time being auntie, daughter, and sister to my family whom I'm lucky enough to see whenever I like. I run. I love spending time with my friends whenever I can, in small groups so I can get to know them better. I enjoy music, live and recorded. I read. mostly I try to live in the moment.
Also, I am generally a quiet person at first, and I suck at small talk. (but I love conversation in general and it doesn't take me long to warm up.)
food: I gave up meat about 5 years ago for health reasons. now I eat mostly fish and a vegetarian diet. However, I don't care how other people eat, so please feel free to order that steak and feel comfortable knowing I won't be snagging food off your plate! :) I love Italian and Mexican food and most seafood (tho I haven't managed to get in to the sushi craze.... yet. I've found one sushi restaurant I like, so far. I still struggle with the whole process of how to eat such a large bite all in one.)
TV: I loved the first 4 seasons of The West Wing. more currently I enjoy Psych, Castle, Newsroom, detective shows, and more. Hulu recently added the various Star Trek series to their site, so I'm having fun watching old episodes of that when I have time.
also... I LOVE hugs. If you can deliver a truly phenomenal, never want to let go, hug with your whole being, no strings attached, hug... and are willing to give them freely, randomly, and often... I'll gladly take that instead of a gift or flowers.
- Straight guys only
- Ages 37–47
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
for some reason OKC claims I "respond selectively", which I think makes me appear snobbish. so not the case. the only times I don't respond are when the message is clearly spam, a cut/paste generic message, you are in your 20s, you want me to hook up with your girlfriend, or you are poly. being a woman on a dating site can be very tricky.
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