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42 • F • San Jose, CA
I’m looking for
- Straight guys only
- Ages 39–47
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 5:23am
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
Giving back: I volunteer my time for a counseling agency where I see clients and supervise other counselors. It's peer counseling rather than therapy, and I love it. Companioning people as they heal is a great honor.
Personally: I spend time being auntie, daughter, and sister to my family whom I'm lucky enough to see whenever I like. I love spending time with my friends whenever I can, in small groups so I can get to know them better. I enjoy music, live and recorded. I read. mostly I try to live in the moment.
right now I'm training for a series of back to back races (5k, 10k, half, and full marathon: 4 races in 4 days), (I know this sounds intense, but it's actually going to be my first ever marathon... I'm working up to it!). it's been a really interesting experience and I'm enjoying pushing myself, getting more fit, and learning that running is as much a mental challenge as a physical one. added bonus: I am training with my brother, so it's been fun getting to know him better... running for 5 hours means we blow through quite a lot of conversation topics!
Also, I am generally a quiet person at first, and I suck at small talk. there's only so many times one can talk about the weather! (but I love conversation in general and it doesn't take me long to warm up.)
food: I gave up meat about 5 years ago for health reasons. now I eat mostly fish and a vegetarian diet. However, I don't care how other people eat, so please feel free to order that steak and feel comfortable knowing I won't be snagging food off your plate! :) I love Italian and Mexican food and most seafood (tho I haven't managed to get in to the sushi craze.... yet. I've found one sushi restaurant I like, so far. I still struggle with the whole process of how to eat such a large bite all in one.)
TV: I loved the first 4 seasons of The West Wing. more currently I enjoy Psych, Castle, Newsroom, detective shows, and more. Hulu recently added the various Star Trek series to their site, so I'm having fun watching old episodes of that when I have time.
also... I LOVE hugs. If you can deliver a truly phenomenal, never want to let go, hug with your whole being, no strings attached, hug... and are willing to give them freely, randomly, and often... I'll gladly take that instead of a gift or flowers.
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