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reddheron

69 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 12:28pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Who I was: small town beach girl and tomboy, cheerleader, softball pitcher, potter, photo editor, author, art critic, business owner (book publishing), wife, mother, dog owner.

Who I am now: city girl, country girl(upstate), birdwatcher, swimmer, gardener, art lover, folk art and antique dealer, grandmother, dog owner, widow.

Won't lie about my chronological age (yikes, it even scares me), in fact I flaunt it— all that wisdom and experience, and still looking good and moving fast. I like small towns, local food, but I still love living in the city: crave its energy, culture and constant surprise, and I can't imagine life without it.

I love the history and research behind the objects I acquire. And I'm still looking at images every day. Have always been a voracious reader and somewhat of a news junkie. Have three fabulous grandchildren who live close by...and a Labradoodle who is a dock diver and therapy dog.

What else can I tell you? I am looking for someone who is fun, compassionate and spontaneous. I can't tolerate anyone who is stingy, or lacks humor...playfulness is the key to my happiness. And I can't live without music.

No lies please, or old photos...and please be truthful about your age..
What I’m doing with my life
taking one day at a time and moving forward
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All time, maybe Angle of Repose, So Long See you Tomorrow... Recent: Flight Behavior, Shine Shine Shine, State of Wonder, The Tiger's Wife, Hare with Amber Eyes, Killer Stuff and Tons of Money. Love food! all and anything —live in NYC so spoiled. Film: Woody Allen— most, love the prune danish scene in Bananas; Altman, maybe Nashville one of all time faves; most Scorsese;Wes Anderson—Grosse Pointe Blank, Demme—Something Wild; Kings Speech, Out of Africa, The Way We Were...sappy, but so great. Music: From The Clash to Bruce, Dave Matthews, Van the man; Abdullah Ibraham to Ali Farke Toure; Lou Reed to Solomon Burke; Handel opera to Yo Yo Ma; Slow sexy Cuban from the 30s and 40s, Cachao to Charlie Haden; Arcade Fire to Regina Spector; Miles, Coltrane to Bela Fleck; and always Jimmy Cliff, Tosh, Toots and Marley.
The six things I could never do without
you can adjust to deprivation of almost anything, but I do love my coffee first thing in the AM, art, music, books..and pretty obvious to say friends and family...who wouldn't?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The ramifications of an unexpected event, and our infinite capacity to change.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends or nestled in..
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 60–73
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
liberal in your politics, generous in spirit and action