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27 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Off beat, but in rhythm.

I'm an engineer (electrical) and a musician (guitar/vocals), and riding the line between the right and left sides of my brain really defines the how and why of what I do. If you can figure out how I pull it off, you're well on your way to figuring me out. Throw in a cheeky sense of humor, and you get the picture.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
You'd be surprised at how plans for 30,000 volt gear resemble a set of IKEA instructions. Official job title is "Design Engineer." Fabulous.

By night, I design and build audio equipment for guitarists and producers. This usually involves going to shows, buying a drink for the band and getting consigned to do some custom work, and subsequently forgetting what I promised cause they buy me drinks back. I need to work out this business model...

After all that, I'm in the process of writing an album.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music…whatever. Let's not focus on that. But my vocal coach does say that I'm pretty good at "Screlting." That's such a gross word.

I would definitely put my guacamole in the list of top 10 best guac recipes. I've got a humble set of culinary skills (looking for a sous chef?), but this is one dish I can definitely brag about.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"You've got a certain deviousness about you."
~Fabulously flirty guy that drew my blood at the doctor's last week.

Despite the fact that I'm smiling in all my pictures, I've got a pretty serious case of whatever the male version of Resting Bitch Face is.

It's more likely "Where the hell is this guy from?! Is he Brazilian? Middle Eastern? What is it?!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Honestly, don't most people skip this part?

Some music favorites include Queens of the Stone Age, Nine Inch Nails, Incubus, Radiohead, Foo Fighters, Florence and the Machine, Muse, Arctic Monkeys, Punch Brothers…I won't type out my iTunes list of bands. Chances are that if you love music, we'll probably have a lot more to talk about than just bands we like in common.

That said, I've been listening to a lot of Mexican Polka lately. Not entirely by choice, but my neighbors are totally cool enough to help me out with that.

I'm an adventurous eater, and the more exotic, the better. From Thai, Italian, Mediterranean, to Ethiopian, etc. Extra points for spiciness. And in my neighborhood, you can't skip the chicken and waffles.

At the moment, I've got more technical material on my reading list than I do traditional literature. I do need to take a break from "How to Design Amps for Guitar and Bass."
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Minor chords.
2) Cilantro.
3) That gross breeze I feel before my train comes in the subway.
4) Bodega cats.
5) People that get my deadpan sarcasm.
6) Tina Fey
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The balance between total honesty and composure.

To put it less blandly, I wear my heart on my sleeve while still making sure that the look matches my tie.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Walking to wherever I'm headed to the beat of whatever is playing in my headphones.

When I get there, Jameson. Neat.

Usually there's someone meeting me there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Despite knowing my dad for forever, and despite all my love and respect for him...his accent still makes me giggle just a little.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you think I can learn something from you, especially if you don't have to directly teach it to me. I feel like I'm at my best when there's a woman in my life that I truly admire. It gives me something for which I strive. I crave inspiration more than I need attention.

Otherwise, if you think you're confident that you can put me in such a good mood that I'll be singing "PYT" the day after we hang.

If you think pit bulls are cute. No. I don't have one...yet.

I'm tired of being the one doing the serenading. So maybe you want to take a shot at making me swoon? Alternatively, I'd take just a youtube link to a song that's been stuck in your head all day.