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27 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Off beat, but still in rhythm.

Blend passionate creativity, an innate curiosity about how things tick, a cheeky but dry sense of humor, an animated disposition, a cheesy metaphor or two about cooking, and mix well.

I'm forever riding the line between the right and left sides of my brain. My idea of balance is not bouncing between the two extremes, and I'm not opposed to leaning a little bit in one direction for a short while. If you can figure out how I pull all of that together, you're well on your way to figuring me out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Having more fun now that I did in college.

I'm an electrical engineer. You'd be surprised at how plans for 30,000 volt gear resemble a set of IKEA instructions. Official job title is "Design Engineer." Fabulous.

I'm also a musician (guitar + vocals) and an audio engineer. By night, I design and build audio equipment for guitarists and producers. This usually involves going to shows, buying a drink for the band and getting consigned to do some custom work, and subsequently forgetting what I promised because they often buy me drinks in return. I need to work out this business model...

After all that, I'm in the process of writing an album. Indy alt rock, but kinda has an exotic feel to it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music??? Eh, let's not focus on that now. But my vocal coach does say that I'm pretty good at "Screlting." That's such a gross word.

I would definitely put my guacamole in the top 10 list of best guac recipes. I've got a humble set of culinary skills (looking for a sous chef?), but this is one dish I can definitely brag about.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"You've got a certain deviousness about you."
~Fabulously flirty guy.

Despite the fact that I'm smiling in all my pictures, I've got a pretty serious case of whatever the male version of Resting Bitch Face is. What should I call that? Resting dick face? Wait, that doesn't sound right...

It's more likely "Where the hell is this guy from?! Is he Brazilian? Middle Eastern? What is it?!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've been listening to a lot of Mexican Polka lately. Not entirely by choice, but my neighbors are totally cool enough to help me out with that.

To not be a total smartass, the cliff notes response of what was asked....Zadie Smith, Quentin Tarantino, anything involving Anthony Bourdain or Gordon Ramsay, Queens of the Stone Age, and anything with Cilantro.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) A challenge.
2) Minor chords.
3) That gross breeze I feel before my train comes in the subway.
4) Bodega cats.
5) A notebook, real ink and real paper.
6) Tina Fey.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my element is, and how I can take myself out of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Walking to the beat of whatever is playing in my headphones to a spot that's hopefully got live music.

When I get there, Jameson. Neat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Despite knowing my dad for forever, and despite all my love and respect for him...his accent still makes me giggle just a little.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to push me. If you think I can learn something from you. I feed off the people in my life, and often pick up habits without them teaching it to me. I feel like I'm at my best when there's a woman in my life that I truly admire. It gives me something for which I strive. I crave inspiration more than I need attention.

Otherwise, if you think you're confident that you can put me in such a good mood that I'll be singing "PYT" the day after we hang.

I'm tired of being the one doing the serenading. So maybe you want to take a shot at making me swoon? Alternatively, I'd take just a youtube link to a song that's been stuck in your head all day.