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39 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:21pm
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Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Space camp
Has kids and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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oh, dear...
What I’m doing with my life
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exploring my edge, being a yogi, steaming in saunas, sitting in hot water, getting needled by my acupuncturist, and raising a kick-ass little girl.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
procrastination, finding my way in a new city without a map, dislocating my pinky toes, using commas, losing my keys, and shaking when cold.
The first things people usually notice about me
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apparently, my eyes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Recent books: The Addicted Brain-Michael Kuhar, Portraits of my Melancholy Whores-Garcia Marquez, My Heart Laid Bare- Joyce Carol Oates, Beasts- Oates, Poe- a collection of shorts, Siddartha, Keroauc, Nabakov, Steinbeck, Ficciones-Borges, The Alchemist-Paulo Coelho, Reaching the Animal Mind-Pryor.
Music: Mondo Cane, the Postal Service, Manu Chao, Muse, Bob Marley, Ben Harper, U2, Belle & Sebastian, Leonard Cohen, Peter & the Wolf, Pearl Jam, Smashing Pumpkins, Johnny Cash, Adele, the Beastie Boys, Bright Eyes, Radiohead, Nina Nastasia, Neko Case...
Food: raw tuna, stone fruit season, rocky road ice cream, burritos, prosciutto, pho, heirloom tomatoes, olive oil, butter, bacon. food, I like to eat food.
The six things I could never do without
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sanity, hope, desire, passion, imagination, and my camera.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
ah, depends on the weekend...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i can tie a cherry stem with my tongue...
You should message me if
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you want to...
or, you look good in a pair of red pants.