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redflare00

23 / M / gay / Single

Portland, Oregon

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Ethnicity
Height
5' 8" (1.75m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, German (Okay), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am outrageous, egregious, and preposterous.

My Self-Summary

I'm a nerd-type who loves to argue and try new things (within my ironically narrow comfort limits). Before college, I really didn't do much besides sit in front of the computer all day, but I've happily put a stop to that. I'm recently into cooking, coffee (snobbery), cycling, rock climbing, hiking, and men's dress fashion, though I'm often looking at the scientific side of things. I just graduated with a B.A. in Chemistry and for the moment, living in Portland.

Don't let the physical activities fool you; I also really love to just lounge and watch good shows, like Venture Bros, The West Wing, and Star Trek, just to name a few.

I'm essentially a sheltered child beginning to explore the world. I am fiercely independent of my parents and tend to be very close with my friends. I have a lot to learn about my new interests; I'm quite a novice with all of them.

I place a fair amount on relationships - I'm generally a long-term kinda guy. I *frequently* know exactly what I want and this *frequently* scares people. I'm not saying I'm ready to settle down or anything close to that, but I'm looking for someone with the huevos to stick around and take things seriously. SRSLY. At the same time, I'm strongly independent and appreciate upfront communication.

By the way, the dating persona quiz is totally off for me. I've never been so disappointed with a free algorithm before.

What I’m doing with my life

I have a job and a house, which is good enough for me right now. I just graduated from Reed College and I'm planning on going to grad school within a year or two. I can't be stagnant, now can I?

I’m really good at

video games and tv show references. I learn fairly quickly too. One friend tells me I'm very outgoing. The other says I'm shy and introverted. What the hell?

I'm also good at ignoring okcupid messages. I will respond pretty quickly or not at all. Sorry. I am that douchebag.

The first things people usually notice about me

My red hair. Not a dye job! (This is a punchable offense, though I will give a verbal warning)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(A) The Golden Compass, The Subtle Knife, Eyes of Crow, Pride and Prejudice, The Amber Spyglass, Dead Souls, though I've been rather lax lately about pleasure reading.

(B) I like a lot of movies, but I'm not really particularly fond of any. Generally they have a high love story factor (like Before Sunrise), a high explosions factor (like X-Men), or a high thought factor (like The Fountain). There's still a soft spot in my heart for movies like Clueless. I refuse to watch gorey movies (like... well, I haven't seen any in years. Saw?). Sorry gore-fans.

(C) Daft Punk, Emilie Simon, Franz Ferdinand, Feist, The Bangles, Cake, Weezer, Ratatat, Etta James and a fairly wide variety of other stuff.

(D) I love mexican food and most other spicy food. I can do the fast food thing once in a while, but now I'm hyper-conscious of food additives. I love to make my own meals from raw (usually) "organic" ingredients.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Planning life right now. Deciding what to do and all that. I like to imagine where my life would go if certain contingencies were met. Call it useful daydreaming.

On a typical Friday night I am

with friends, in one way or another. I quit playing World of Warcraft a few months ago, so now I'm getting used to being a functioning, social, normal human being again. I'll often watch movies/tv shows with friends or go out to a bar.

Though with my current work schedule, I'll probably be sleeping on Friday nights. How's Saturday sound?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm a cheap drunk, probably because I don't have a whole lot of mass.

You should message me if

you want something of consequence. Or maybe you just want to chat or go do something. Do I have to decide if you should message me? It's not really a risk. What have you got to lose?

Also, I realize that I sound like an asshole. I'm actually quite nice. I swear!