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redhagstyx

27 / F / straight / Seeing someone

Nijmegen, Netherlands

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.74m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Fluently), Norwegian (Okay), Turkish

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I am combobulated, non-housewifey, and fluffy.

My Self-Summary

My ultimate goal was to travel as far and as often as possible and live a life of international sexual decadence but.......I'm busy. With what? Things......

And now: let's make lists.....I love making lists (obsessive? maybe)...if I were a better person, I'd stick to them.

Likes/loves:
*Tool
*history
*politics
*mythology
*A Perfect Circle
* Norway
* Travelling/ backpacking
*I recently re-discovered (already knew them) My Dying Bride
*ladybirds(or ladybugs, marienkäfer, lieveheersbeestjes, coccinelles)
*Eddie Izzard
*walking through piles of autumn leaves
*autumn itself
*the smell of freshly washed clothing
*lying in freshly washed bed linnen
*good kissers
*good sex
*languages
* wolves (my favourite animals)

Dislikes/hates:
*blind patriottism
*people who drink too much
*people who smoke too much Mary Jane
*football (or soccer, whichever you prefer to write)
*bad sex
*bad kissers (which most of the time means bad sex)
*people who are rude and never take a good look at their behaviour
*onions
*people DEMANDING that I give them my msn address
*bulk emails from men who obviously want a wife who waits on them hand and foot, listen guys: THAT IS NOT ME!!!!!!!!!!!

As any healthy, mentally disturbed person, I absolutely hate myself from time to time. However, the past few weeks I am in a very loving mood towards myself, and it seems to pay off. Actually, I am a person I would like and hang out with, maybe even call a (good) friend, and I can be very critical. I am honest (sometimes to the degree of the unpleasant), sensitive, emotional, and a pool of advice and wisdom to some (which, of course, I never take myself). I am from time to time very cynical and sarcastic, so when talking to me, bare that in mind.

It takes a lot for me to get really angry, but some things can annoy me. I am forgiving and also spiteful, but I never take revenge on anyone. I am actually sweet and helpful. Yes, I am the embodyment of antithesis and internal conflict. I hope I bring it gracefully.

I'd like to point out that the questions in the bottom of my profile have not all been answered and therefore cannot be seen as my actual interests/answers/desires.........
Now in Dutch
Ik in een notendop.....

Ik heb een klein scala aan persoonlijkheidsstoornissen, waarmee ik mezelf en anderen tot vervelens toe kan vermaken.
Ik ben een taalpurist, onverbeterlijke verbeteraar, heb een hekel aan mensen die Holland zeggen waar het Nederland zou moeten zijn, heb een schurfthekel aan Kane en Oasis. Wat mij betreft mogen ze neervallen en nooit meer muziek maken. (lichtelijke overdrijving, maar ik kan ze niet uitstaan.) Ik heb een hekel aan sms-taal en het oneigenlijk gebruik van spaties. Daarnaast heb ik er een handje van woorden te gebruiken die anderen *duur* noemen. Ik lust naast dit alles ook nog eens geen ui.

Waarom zou er iemand ooit met me omgaan? Is er iets wat ik WEL leuk vind?
Compleet tegen mijn Nederlandse natuur in ga ik wat positieve dingen over mezelf opnoemen.

- ik ben lief
- ik ben loyaal
- ik sta altijd voor anderen klaar (met advies of hulp op andere wijze)
- ik heb brede interesses (geschiedenis, cultuur, kunst, taal/talen, dieren- en mensenwelzijn)
- ik ben prettig gestoord

Dingen die ik leuk vind:

- kunst (kijken, of zelf schilderen/fotograferen/boetseren)
- tv kijken
- dieren (ben ontzettend snel aan dieren gehecht, zowel op mijn bord als huisdieren/wilde dieren)
- wolven
- lieveheersbeestjes
- schone was
- mijn Wii
- slapen
- katholieke iconografie

What I’m doing with my life

I just wrote a new test for Tool fans, the know your tool lyrics test...check my tests (all down the bottom after all those tests I took, or copy this into a browser: http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/know-your-tool-lyrics-test

I am a slacker right now, I used to be a student at professional uni, studying to become a history teacher for secondary school.
My dream is to either write, act, sing, host a travel show on tv, be an MTV vj, 3FM dj, backpacker, photographer, universal sexbomb, and the pagan virginal saint in the flesh, and also be the best history teacher ever. I have ambitions one might say.
I just like so many things that I decided to no longer make decisions about my life. For now my goal is to graduate within a few months and take it from there. I definitely need to travel more, and want to get all out of life that I can, and am able to, while I can still do it. I also have high demands on myself, and wish to put myself up to my full potential.

Check out my travels
and pics!
Now in Dutch
Voltijd steuntrekker, deeltijd therapie-ontvanger.....als je nog niet afgeschrikt bent, vraag naar de specificaties.

I’m really good at

Photography, languages!!!, judgement of character, helping people emotionally, sarcasm! Teaching, driving people away, driving people crazy, twisting men's words to drive them crazy (it's a girl thing, I do it as a joke though, I would never seriously ask if those jeans make me look fat, or at least not freak out over the answer), procrastinating, entering data, yes, the latter is as thrilling as it sounds :(
Now in Dutch
Mezelf ophemelen en neerhalen, voornamelijk tegelijkertijd.

The first things people usually notice about me

I get a lot of compliments on my eyes, but they can be hiding behind a lock of hair, and my hair; it tends to change shape and colour every now and then.

And I have a nice soft round butt........hard to find jeans that fit AND look good, but it's very comfy I've been told.
Now in Dutch
Dat wat ik in het Engels heb geschreven, maar dan in het Nederlands...ik zou het eigenlijk echt niet weten. Iedereen valt wel iets anders op eigenlijk.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a)Lord of the Rings, de donkere kamer van Damokles, Gimmick!, Extremely loud & incredibly close, A History of Tractors in Ukrainian

b)Lord of the Rings, Pirates of the caribbean, Le Fabuleux Destin d'Am鬩e Poulain, Harem Soir饬 and many more I cannot come up with right now

c)fado, Irish folk, traditional music of all kinds, hardrock, symfo metal, hardcore, Tool!, A Perfect Circle!, industrial, Tori Amos, The Knife, Beck, Manu Chao, chansons, rock, new wave, 60's 70's music, Simon&Garfunkel and loads and loads more

d)water, sweet white wine, tea, Martini Bianco, special beers, sparkling ice tea, beers from our brewery in Nijmegen, coke, macaroni with ham&cheese, red meat, Turkish cuisine, red meat, veggies&fruits, pasta pasta pasta pasta..........

e) how can OkCupid forget to ask if you like Monty Python or not??? So, I absolutely LOVE Monty Python, and if you don't, you should!

The six things I could never do without

sleep (if not the daily requirement, many hours more), nutrients (yes, boring, but the ugly truth), shelter (not for me, but for all my books and clothing and shoes and music and dvds) companions (not everyday, but knowing there are people there is quite comforting) goals/wishes, obsessions (either a specific song, or tv show, comedian, or whatever that is within legal limits)
Now in Dutch
Voedsel, vocht, onderdak, familie, vrienden, gezonde (tijdelijke) obsessies

I spend a lot of time thinking about

* Why I am 96% match for myself, it should either be 100% or 0% I think....or 50%, since you shouldn't end up with someone exactly like yourself.....I'd drive myself insane, I think I should go well under 50%

* Why I get most compliments about how good I look when I am actually sick

* Why I ever quit arts (all kinds)

* When I will get to travel again, and where to

* Why I get so many messages from guys way older than 35 (sorry, girl's gotta have limits)

* Why one of my rats was so obviously less intelligent compared to the other one
Now in Dutch
Hoe ga ik mijn leven indelen? Waar gaat mijn volgende reis naartoe? Wanneer ga ik weer eens op reis? Wil ik wel kinderen? Wil ik wel een relatie? Wil een relatie mij wel? Wanneer heb ik eindelijk mijn eigen huisje en niet meer mijn studentenkamer? Kom ik vóór mijn dertigste nog uit dit studentenhuis weg? Waarom blijft iedereen hardnekkig Holland(s) zeggen als het Nederland(s) is? Waarom lijkt tegenwoordig niemand meer fatsoenlijk te kunnen schrijven? Waarom ben ik zo snobistisch? Praat ik te veel? Zeg ik te weinig? Hebben dieren een hiernamaals? Hebben mensen een hiernamaals? Zou ik niet eens werk maken van een rijbewijs? Welk boek zal ik nu eens lezen? Wanneer had ik die afspraak ook al weer? Waar ligt....? Waar vind ik een kabeltrui voor een man? Heb ik nu genoeg geschreven?

On a typical Friday night I am

Just the same as on other night...maybe watching some TV shows I downloaded, or watching a film or shows on TV/DVD, maybe out on the town enjoying a nice beer, maybe hanging out with friends, playing Wii games or just plain old doing nothing
Now in Dutch
In mijn geboortestadje, of lekker thuis in Nijmegen. Naar de kroeg (of lokale brouwerij) met vrienden, Wii aan het spelen, film/tv-serie aan het kijken, aan het kleien/schilderen/tekenen, aan het vervelen, op msn, de was aan het draaien? Elke dag is vrijdag, vrijdag is elke dag.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I hurt myself on a daily basis, because doorframes, thresholds, walls, trees, tables, chairs and couches won't get out of the way.
Now in Dutch
Als je mijn verhaal bij *ik in een notendop* leest, zie je dat ik al verrekte openhartig ben.

You should message me if

You want to,crave it, feel inclined to, feel obliged, if I seem like your dreamgirl or perfect foe.

Don't message me if; you're looking for a housewife, an obedient slave, or a girl that just sits there and has no meaning, if you think Steven Seagal movies are good.
Now in Dutch
je daar zin in hebt, en niet iemand bent die een makkelijke doos wil hebben. Zin in cyberseks? Ga iemand anders vervelen...