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41 F Lebanon, PA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:39am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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I recognize that your first inclination might be to call me "red"... But I warm you, it's a turn off. And for all you smart a$$e$ out there who'll do it just cuz I pointed it out, remember... I warned you. It's the introductory nickname that's the turn off, not the smart a$$.

Turn ons: square jaws, strong arms, light eyes, youth, intelligence, humor, sarcasm and sweetness.

Turn offs: narrowmindedness, ignorance, laziness, bravado, dishonesty.

I'm a classic ginger. I tell it like it is, I have an extremely low tolerance for bulls**t and I don't waste time. I know what I want; more importantly, i know what i don't want. I'm also extremely open-minded, objective, mindful, kind and outgoing. I love people and the lessons they teach me.

In general, guys wear their hair a little too short.
I don't understand beards.
A great smile, proper eye contact and a compliment go a LONG way.
I generally lean toward thin body types... Some may say a double standard... I say... We like what we like.
I've done research... The most universally attractive people lie somewhere in the middle of the male-female spectrum. Beautiful women have a slight rough touch and handsome boys have a soft touch.
Wine and cheese and peanut butter and chocolate were quite simply... MADE for each other.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
working hard, playing harder.
Raising two awesome little people. Learning lessons. Every day. Tending bar. Writing about what's swirling in my head. Meeting people and learning from them, good or bad. I've traded the shaker and bitters for a laptop and suit... But I'm still a bartender at heart... A bartender with a masters in English.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing and speaking
giving advice
cleaning and organizing
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hair and eyes.
I don't have much of a filter.
I'm ALWAYS smiling.
I like to listen just as much as I like to talk
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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words - She's Come Undone, Catcher in the Rye, Frankenstein, Savage Love, anything by Brautigan or Sexton, biographies, forensic and crime-related non-fiction.
tv - Weeds, Girls, Conan, Tosh, That 70's Show
movies - Shawshank, People Like Us, Beautiful Mind, Dead Poets Society
music - everything - but especially Pink, Janice, Bruce, Dolls, Foos, Bruno, nelly, Mitchell, 3EB, Good Charlotte, Green Day, The Script
food - tomatos, pickles
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family
my car
my shoes
my sense of humor
a pen, preferably blue (or a #2 pencil)
other people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
being present.
learning the lesson.
constant improvement.
how lucky I am.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working or out ~listening to any live music I can find or in ~ cleaning something and listening to something funky.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a terrible memory.
I don't like facial hair.
I do like ego; i don't like misplaced ego.
You should message me if
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you are young, attractive, smart, sarcastic, talented, motivated, interesting, like to engage in interesting conversation and NOT looking for a LTR, but also not looking for a ONS.