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43 Melbourne, Australia Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–57
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My details

Last online
Mar 27
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body type
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a black beret short of a beat poet.

I want to be a Totoro when I grow up.

Currently, I'm single and in the process of recovering from a severe anxiety disorder so I'm not actively looking for new partners. Some answers may be more representative of who I was prior to said nervous breakdown.

New friends (especially queer/kink friendly) are always very welcome.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Wrangling supercomputers for Science! and loving it.
Teaching myself to become a better photographer.
Enjoying spending time with my awesome friends.
Levelling up in shibari (Hachi-kyu in Osada-ryu!)
Making and enjoying music.
Being webmaster and tech nerd for VicLeather
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, facial hair and my hat(s).
That I don't lie about my age, but my age lies about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lists are boring, so here are some memories.

Not getting drowned by the They Might Be Giants confetti cannon.
Standing onstage at Hamer Hall in The Arts Centre with the Melbourne Millenium Chorus, singing our hearts out.
Getting a full body massage from the bass line at a Nine Inch Nails concert.
A quiet introspective moment on the couch with coffee and Miles Davis.
Smuggling my camera into a concert and taking the perfect photo of Suzanne Vega.
In a workshop with Erik Whitacre and 300 strangers, the opening bars of Lux Aurumque raising every hair on the back of my neck.
The physics-defying technicality and narrative intimacy of Katie Noonan and her Love-Song-Circus.

The Shanghai-style dumplings that were comfort food when I was feeling homesick in Yunnan province.
The unagi (eel) noodle soup that surprised my hosts when I picked it off the menu within 4 hours of landing in Japan.
Tuna, mayo, chilli and spanish onion on the darkest and heaviest German black rye bread that I can only buy in Canberra.
Penne Puttanesca served with a side order of Woodford Folk Festival.
Rigging a yoko-zuri (sideways suspension) on the dance floor at ABODE
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
At the moment:
How to get my recumbent trike on the road.
Where to obtain the parts to build my Tesla coil.
Where to find the time to spend on my drum rudiments.
Helping Inorg build an animatronic dragon puppet

(one of these things may not be true)
Tesla coil plans on the backburner in flavour of a radio-astronomy mobile art installation!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am highly ticklish at very specific points on the space-time continuum.

If I did so, I'd flag (left) grey, fuschia, argyle, houndstooth and in the right mood black.