Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Fiction is mainly fantasy and sci fi, otherwise it's the
literary equivalent of watching documentaries.
Neil gaiman, Richard Morgan, William Gibson, George r r Martin, Joe
Abercrombie, Patrick Rothfuss, Brent weeks, Scott Lynch, Anthony
Reading "when gravity fails" by George C Effinger. And it is just
so good, like reading guilded poetry.
Music: Mostly metal but I'm all over the place, Jaya the cat
(favorite) Opeth, Girl Talk, Dillinger escape plan, insomnium,
Epica, UNKLE, the black angels, mother mother, Bowie, Pulp.
TV: Top Gear (UK), James may programs (UK), House, Sons of Anarchy,
Jamie Oliver, Rick Stein food stuff, adventure shows, neverwhere,
Docs, Anything that looks dangerous but fun.