Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Fiction is mainly fantasy and sci fi, otherwise it's the
literary equivalent of watching documentaries.
Neil gaiman, Richard Morgan, William Gibson, George r r Martin, Joe
Abercrombie, Patrick Rothfuss, Brent weeks, Scott Lynch, Anthony
Reading "when gravity fails" by George C Effinger. And it is just
so good, like reading guilded poetry.
Music: you don't want to know.
Mostly metal but I'm all over the place, Jaya the cat (favorite)
Opeth, Girl Talk, Dillinger escape plan, insomnium, Epica, UNKLE,
the black angels, mother mother, Bowie, Pulp.
TV: Top Gear (UK), James may programs (UK), House, Sons of Anarchy,
Jamie Oliver, Rick Stein food stuff, adventure shows, neverwhere,
Docs, Anything that looks dangerous but fun.