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46 Bergenfield, NJ Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 7:46pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My friends would describe me as creative, caring, and curious but with a mischievous mind. I am a teacher who hopes to make a difference in this world. I like to think of myself as an existentialist, a philosophical daoist, and on the left end of the political spectrum. I am very interested in Co-Operative economic systems, organic agriculture / permaculture, and energy issues. In otherwords, I like Co-Operative groceries, bicycle, and coffee shops, community gardens, bicycling and riding by train. I like to be active in life and active in my community. I love to explore the world and travel with friends. I would like to have children so I hope you would like them too.
What I’m doing with my life
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Everything I can. I'm a tenured professor who teaches Environmental Science and Biology at a community college. I am involved in a Bicycle Share Program and a Community garden. I am involved in social and political activism on the left. I love to explore the world around me, bicycle when I can, dance, build, create and play.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love many styles of music including Classical, Celtic, Punk, Goth and SKA!. Some of my favorite bands include: Pogues, The Cure, The English Beat, Siouxsie, the Clash, Oingo Boingo, VNV Nation, Bjork and The Sugarcubes, Madness, Manic Street Preachers, Kate Bush, New Order, and Morrissey and The Smiths. I love going out dancing to this music so I hope you can jitterbug, waltz, ska-nk, pogo, tango, and mosh .

I have been reading mostly non-fiction. Yes, I like fantasy and especially the works of Neil Gaimen, Charles Vess, and the JK Rowlings. But I also enjoy non-fictional works by Jared Diamond, Prince Kropotkin, Hunter S. Thompson.

I do love my animated films and really enjoyed Coraline, Up!, Paranorman, and THE PIRATES! In an adventure with Scientists! Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas is a favorite as is Office Space, Big Lebowski, Amelie, Better off Dead, City of Lost Children, The Wicker Man (1973), Young Frankenstein, Real Genius, The Holy Grail, Adventures of Baron von Munchausen, Labyrinth, Dr. Horrible's Sing-a-long Blog, and Quadrophenia.

Food! Love the Vegan Gyros at the Chicago Diner on Halstead. Love the Ethiopian at Mesob in Montclair, NJ. Love Greek Salads at the Arlington Diner. Love Mexican, Italian, German, French, Chinese, Thai, Lebonese, Indian, and Turkic food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Family.
My Friends.
My curiosity.
My activist groups.
The beautiful world around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Same thing we do every night, Pinky, try to liberate the world!

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