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34 • Chicago, IL • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Online now!
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Pisces, and it matters a lot
- Graduated from university
- Sales / Marketing
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
Life-wise, though, I'm mostly working a lot and tending to my friendships. I want to spend more time drinking whiskey, writing songs, and meeting new people.
Making the most out of what I have - time, resources, opportunities, relationships.
Practicing being present, in every moment I remember to.
I will give anything a listen but I come back to music that makes me think, reminds me to feel and/or moves my body. I feel close to people when they share music with me. David Bowie's body of work has had an influence on me.
I like to watch documentaries the best (mostly about music and design, currently enjoying Ken Burns' Jazz), and a number of hour long dramas.
Food is delicious.
-Quiet time to myself. Necessary for my creativity - this is where I do my best work.
-Good friends - really getting to know people, and letting them know me. This is where I get my energy from.
-Yoga. I really tried to live without it. but I definitely died a bit inside. Turning that crazy train around.
-How things are made. I still fondly remember the short film on [Sesame Street] [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQ_MEFVx5jM] where they show how crayons are made (with the most perfect soundtrack, btw)
-My breath. It helps me stay in the present more often than not.
-The future. This is at odds with staying in the moment sometimes, but it is, and always has been the drive in my life.
You'd like to go an an actual date. In person, outside of your bedroom.
You are inquiring on your own behalf, and not that of a couple. I'm not looking to be another couple's unicorn right now.
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