Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm dubious about the OK Cupid methods having heard the news report
about the need to manipulate things. That said val halla here I am.
I figure I throw it out to the universe and let's see how things
go. However I'm developing the notion that as much as y'all say
you'd like a woman to approach you, I , thru conversations with my
single male friends, think you really don't. You've a " I don't
want to be a part of a club that would have me as a member"
attitude it seems. Thusly , I tend to not reach out first. Call me
So the summary. Well. I've 2 kids and a dog. While almost shangri
la we've not quite hit utopia. One can be optimistic can't
I'm 45 and divorced. I'm gainfully employed and yes I have a car,
my own health insurance, and my very own xbox. . I'm from the area
but not overly "southern" in my approach to life. I do prefer a
laid back approach to things. I tend to be a smidge sarcastic (ok
exceedingly) if it helps , my friends say I'm like Lillith from
So why am I here right. Isn't that what this is asking? I guess the
same as most people. I've gotten kind of used to my life but know
it would be much better if I had someone who "gets" it right? I've
an odd sense of humor and it takes me a bit to open up. Yes I'm an
introvert but I'm not actually shy. I just prefer to watch a bit
before I engage. I love me some dragon con or Momocon Yes geek
ville. But also love tennis and will actually watch a whole
football game without issue. So ,like everyone, just looking for
the person whose happy to that degree.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A great number of things. Some productive some not so much. Work is
fine but is that what defines me? Let's see
I laugh at bad jokes. Was considering writing a book. (The topic of
which changes often).
There's a stray cat that I've taken to feeding. It is wild and
doesn't want anything but food but the skinny little thing is
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems. Don't panic is the motto. Well unless said
problem has more than four legs and runs quickly. Then panic. Ummm
Honestly ,and this sounds horrifically cliche, I'm very good at
listening. In fact I love listening to people's stories. There are
some fun ones out there
Going with the flow is another strong point. I can plan with the
best but when the plans don't pan then one must play the hand one
is dealt no?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
beats me, its not a question Ive ever considered. I figure thats as
individual as the people who do the noticing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books- I love to read. I like a good mystery or historical novel.
Was going to read Game of Thrones but don't wish to ruin the
Movies- marvel movies are they way to go. Old black and white
movies. Documentaries about pretty much anything
Music- very eclectic. Just please no country. Well old country yes.
Johnny Cash or hank jr ok. But the new stuff. Yuck
Food- spicy!! Not a huge fan of barbque but otherwise I enjoy
hitting Buford highway and seeing what's there
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My glasses. Blind as a bat
A sense of humor.
My friends. I've a good mix. They're good people
Getting out and about. This doesn't mean spending lots of cash.
This means not sitting at home watching tv. It just means doing
Music of some sort.
And , of course, my minions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life. The universe... And everything. I think a lot. It's what I
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday has two lives
One is the mom Friday home with the little people. The other means
going out to see a show or hanging with friends or walking the
park. Sometimes movie and pizza.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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HA! seriously? I am a private person. I dont like to broadcast my
stuff to the world. That being said, after we've established a
rapport, ask if you want to know...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Message away, its the only way to see if we can be friends or more.
The exceptions, please, if you are married or you are younger than
35. Ive no interest in that so please dont
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