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45 Atlanta, GA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:46pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm dubious about the OK Cupid methods having heard the news report about the need to manipulate things. That said val halla here I am. I figure I throw it out to the universe and let's see how things go. However I'm developing the notion that as much as y'all say you'd like a woman to approach you, I , thru conversations with my single male friends, think you really don't. You've a " I don't want to be a part of a club that would have me as a member" attitude it seems. Thusly , I tend to not reach out first. Call me old fashioned

So the summary. Well. I've 2 kids and a dog. While almost shangri la we've not quite hit utopia. One can be optimistic can't one?

I'm 45 and divorced. I'm gainfully employed and yes I have a car, my own health insurance, and my very own xbox. . I'm from the area but not overly "southern" in my approach to life. I do prefer a laid back approach to things. I tend to be a smidge sarcastic (ok exceedingly) if it helps , my friends say I'm like Lillith from Fraiser ...

So why am I here right. Isn't that what this is asking? I guess the same as most people. I've gotten kind of used to my life but know it would be much better if I had someone who "gets" it right? I've an odd sense of humor and it takes me a bit to open up. Yes I'm an introvert but I'm not actually shy. I just prefer to watch a bit before I engage. I love me some dragon con or Momocon Yes geek ville. But also love tennis and will actually watch a whole football game without issue. So ,like everyone, just looking for the person whose happy to that degree.
What I’m doing with my life
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A great number of things. Some productive some not so much. Work is fine but is that what defines me? Let's see

I laugh at bad jokes. Was considering writing a book. (The topic of which changes often).

There's a stray cat that I've taken to feeding. It is wild and doesn't want anything but food but the skinny little thing is looking better
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems. Don't panic is the motto. Well unless said problem has more than four legs and runs quickly. Then panic. Ummm ....

Honestly ,and this sounds horrifically cliche, I'm very good at listening. In fact I love listening to people's stories. There are some fun ones out there

Going with the flow is another strong point. I can plan with the best but when the plans don't pan then one must play the hand one is dealt no?
The first things people usually notice about me
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beats me, its not a question Ive ever considered. I figure thats as individual as the people who do the noticing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- I love to read. I like a good mystery or historical novel. Was going to read Game of Thrones but don't wish to ruin the series.
Movies- marvel movies are they way to go. Old black and white movies. Documentaries about pretty much anything
Music- very eclectic. Just please no country. Well old country yes. Johnny Cash or hank jr ok. But the new stuff. Yuck
Food- spicy!! Not a huge fan of barbque but otherwise I enjoy hitting Buford highway and seeing what's there
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My glasses. Blind as a bat
A sense of humor.
My friends. I've a good mix. They're good people
Getting out and about. This doesn't mean spending lots of cash. This means not sitting at home watching tv. It just means doing something. Anything
Music of some sort.
And , of course, my minions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life. The universe... And everything. I think a lot. It's what I do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday has two lives

One is the mom Friday home with the little people. The other means going out to see a show or hanging with friends or walking the park. Sometimes movie and pizza.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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HA! seriously? I am a private person. I dont like to broadcast my stuff to the world. That being said, after we've established a rapport, ask if you want to know...
You should message me if
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Message away, its the only way to see if we can be friends or more. The exceptions, please, if you are married or you are younger than 35. Ive no interest in that so please dont