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43 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:42am
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Christianity but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I grew up in Westchester and moved to NYC to escape my parents. Now they have retired, moved away, & I miss them :-(

i have rosetta stone for spanish through work, so i am trying to build on the 4yrs i studied in school. i have also been taking a spanish class once a week.

i purchased a didgeridoo while visiting australia. i can play it, but i am still trying to figure out circular breathing.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in TV production, and I also own my own business. Most businesses fail within three years, so I am thankful that mine is still going strong after 8+ years. Eventually, I would love to be able to support myself with just my biz...eliminating the need to work for others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I enjoy cooking & I try to make things I usually order out. Specialties include larb gai, cabbage rolls, and an awesome potato/shrimp dish. I haven't mastered pad thai yet...still working on it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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most people notice my hair since it's off the beaten path.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My all-time favorite book is "The Stand" by Stephen King. i don't read much these days (too many other distractions,) but i was a big fan of oprah's book club. favs include: "house of sand and fog" by Andre Dubus III, "a fine balance" by Rohinton Mistry, and "stolen lives: twenty years in a desert jail" by malika oufkir.

I LOVE the Walking Dead, actually a bit obsessed w/this show. other faves: law & order, breaking bad, top chef, american horror story, grimm, scandal, major crimes, the good wife, game of thrones, American crime, empire.

If given a choice, i would pick thai food. But i also love a good empanada.

one of my fav things is to go to dim sum....where none of the staff speaks english, rolling carts of food, and you have to point to select what you want to eat.

i like most Music. But country music...meh, not so much. Favorites include: jamiroquai, Lenny kravitz, deee-lite, Mary j. Blige, James brown, stone temple pilots, groove armada, hole, Nina Simone, Ganga giri, Mariah Carey, the cult, zap mama, sizzla, buju banton, amy winehouse, alice in chains, soul II soul, portishead, cheb i sabbah, the clash, the cure, concrete blonde, david bowie, live, midnight oil, the sugarcubes/bjork, silverchair, new order, digable planets, Ganga giri, soundgarden.

lots of movies- some kind of wonderful (and most john hughes films,) the matrix films, alien & aliens, the pianist, the wedding banquet, little shop of horrors, fiddler on the roof, moonstruck, good fellas, pulp fiction, leaving las vegas, kill bill movies, rosemary's baby, the color purple, steel magnolias, do the right thing (and most spike lee joints,) killing zoe, the prince of tides, what about bob?, little miss sunshine, the ice storm, strange days, requiem for a dream, election.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
gummy bears (must be haribo!)
calculator (i like to double check my #'s)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Way too many things to list.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I'm out w/friends, sometimes I'm home relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't text (I actually called verizon and had them blocked.)
You should message me if
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1. You are a nice and honest person.
2. you like good food.
3. you like good music.
4. you like to travel.
5. you exercise (or at least make an effort.)
6. you are open to a relationship with someone of a different race/religion.
7. you know how to fix things: computers, cars, drippy faucet, my entertainment system that's not working right, etc. (i love a handy man!)

Please DO NOT message me if:
1. you are a "holy roller" meaning you are overly religious and are on a mission to convert sinners like me.
2. you are homophobic or don't think the LGBT community should be allowed to marry, have children, etc.
3. You are under 30. I'm very tempted (but trying to be realistic.) If you are still in your are way too young for me.