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refreshingicet

24 / M / straight / Single

Fremont, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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I am three, amazing, and adjectives.

My Self-Summary

I'm John. Not sure what to say about myself... In Hebrew my name means "generous one." I try to live up to my etymology. My last name however is German for "penny." I'm usually very polite to people I don't know, but once I'm comfortable my sick/cruel sense of humor comes out. I hope they know I'm kidding. I love cats.

What I’m doing with my life

going to school, riding my bike, and reading about religion all day. Seriously. But I'm not religious.

I’m really good at

drinking coffee, eating too much, reading all day, laughing at corny jokes, making mix CDs...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I read non-fiction almost exclusively. But I also really liked Tropic of Cancer and The Trial.

(budding film snob [don't judge me])
2001: A Space Odyssey, The Elephant Man, Pierrot le Fou, The Virgin Spring, Onibaba, Andrei Rublev, Solaris(1972), The Shining, Metropolis, The Big Lebowski, Everything is Illuminated

Antonio Carlos Jobim, My Bloody Valentine, The Arch Mystics, Eric B and Rakim, Aesop Rock, Ghostface Killah, Tyler Ramsey, The Aislers Set, WHY?, Soft Location, Micachu and the Shapes, Radiohead, Interpol, A Tribe Called Quest, Stereolab, Beastie Boys, Fugazi, etc.

I love all food, but especially Indian, Thai, and Mexican.

The six things I could never do without

a good pair of headphones
rods and cones
breakfast in the morning
a good book
my cats
a sense of awe and mystery

I spend a lot of time thinking about

panentheism and women, basically.

"Is life an accident?"
"What's the evolutionary purpose behind _____?"
"So and so says he is the dopest MC, but how do I know for sure?"
"Will irony be replaced by sincerity as the next popular fad?"
"Who is being marketed to here, and how?"

On a typical Friday night I am

hangin out with malesheetz or them_thangs. I enjoy brown people.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

At times, I am very tempted to not even attempt grace and wit in my messages, especially if it's to a girl who is especially good-looking. So, if I message you and I sound intelligent, or at the very least civilized, take it as a compliment; it means I care what you think. But still, my lower brain functions will be just begging to say something like, "O WHASSUP GURL DAMN U HELLA FINE." My libido speaks in caps, as a rule.

Also, I'm broke.

You should message me if

You are a little woman-goddess with impeccable fashion sense who wants to use me as her male mannequin.
You want to feed me delicious vegetarian treats.
You would like me to sing and read stories to you.
You like discussing the inane details of anything.
You can beat me at Scrabble.