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33 M Brooklyn, NY

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
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Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Hello there,
I am a 33 year old self employed, hard working guy, who LOVES life. Honestly, it sounds cheesy but I do...I wake up excited to see how much my little garden has grown overnight.
Everyone looks at me as the youngest/oldest guy they've ever met. Basically I have the responsibility of a 60 year old with the mindset of a 7 year old...trapped in a 33 year old's body. (that made more sense in my head, then written down...)
I live in NYC and am all about good food, great friends, and amazing family...with a HUGE adventure side. I love/ride motorcycles, random camping trips and traveling when possible. I would describe myself as extremely grounded and passionate...but I don't love making plans all the time. I like letting life unfold itself as it's supposed to happen, without the stress and pressure of MAKING it happen!

I live a very un-anxiety (not grammatically correct) filled's too short!
You'll find me at the middle seat of a dive bar or walking around an exotic wood lumber yard searching for my next table making project. I like learning new things...and will watch/read endless amounts of videos/books to learn them. For instance, I just learned how to rip a phone book in half. (bad example) I recently just learned how to start a fire using only a water bottle and a half coconut shell (good example)

I'd also like to say how much I value the importance of living in my own truth. I am honest with myself, therefore I am honest with those around me. We have a tendency (me included) to get wrapped up in the minutia of the day to day nonsense, losing perspective on what life's actually about. We end up creating elaborate stories, personas, and definitions of who we are just to shield ourselves from the judgement of the outside world...and I think that puts a lot of strain on our spirit. Mark Twain once said said, "If you tell the truth, you never have to remember anything." And I like that :)

So if any of this personality resonates with you, write me a message...I am always down to at least say a little hello.

Oh, and if you REALLY want to know what sums up my perspective...then google this: TED talk Gratitude.
What I’m doing with my life
A - Enjoying every tiny moment
B - Breaking the mold and redefining the rules
C - Figuring out the formula to slowing down life...I think I'm onto something...
I’m really good at
- Adventures and building things. I love working with my hands and learning new skills!
- Being Non-Judgmental
- Listening. Go ahead, let's talk.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea actually. It used to be this incredibly full beard I had. Now, maybe shoulder width? You'll have to tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Arrested Development
Sons of Anarchy

Bon Iver
The Black Keys
Gregory Alan Issakov (this dude is the fucking shizz)
Mike Snow
The Mamas and The Papas
Creedence Clearwater
The six things I could never do without
green tea
physical/emotional affection
turkey club sandwiches
The everyday ability to start with a blank slate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Living in a hammock and traveling around the country in a 23FB International Airstream.

How many other closeted doomsday prepping/zombie apocalypse people live in my building?

Taking another cross country motorcycle roadtrip.

Building a self sustaining home in the woods on a secluded lake/river.

Also, wondering why we don't sneeze in our sleep?
On a typical Friday night I am
Laughing my ass off while wandering about Brooklyn. Maybe even showing off some uncomfortable dance moves, alone (whisper: body rolling)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I went to space camp. HORRIBLE. Fat, uncomfortable, braces, no friends, failed the written test to be "pilot" so ended up getting some garbage job on our "mission.",
And wore all the space camp gear for months after. Needless to say, I didn't have the chops to be an astronaut. Oh well, just gonna have to settle with this venture capitalist, international yacht captain license...and figure out what 5 people I want to hang with for a couple months. hmmmmm

OH ONE MORE THING...I got my nipples pierced when I was 20 years old. Still pierced.

OH one last thing...and possibly a deal breaker for some. But in always bettering myself AND full disclosure...
I share something with 50 million other people in the US. I have HSV2. I've been living with it for the last 4 years and other than the negative social stigma, it hasn't changed my life a bit. Yea, I suppose having "a talk" changes some dating situations, but from a physical standpoint, I'm pretty damn unaffected. I want to be open and honest about the herpes virus and let you know that it's not all that it's cracked up to be. If anything it's made me even more accepting of other people's situations. A LOT less judgmental knowing that it can happen to anyone :)
The good news is that if I'm willing to put this out there, not be afraid to open up about an STD, at least you know there isn't much I have to lie about. hahaha
Also, feel free to ask me anything about HSV2 in general. I'm an open book!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if know yourself. I am looking for someone who appreciates the little things in life and doesn't make demands in return. I am looking for someone who wakes up on the right side of the bed each day (not geographically, just in attitude), is beautiful inside and out, is not desperately searching for their "soul mate" (he will eventually come, don't worry :), and loves what they do on a day to day.
If this make sense, if you are comfortable with being alone at times, surrounded at times, or somewhere in between...then I bet we'd get along. I have learned a lot about myself as a little human being over the years...and I continue to do so. I'd like to be with that partner who is on the same journey. Someone who realizes that we can always better ourselves, and who values life for what it has to offer. I am not trying to find a relationship where you own each others actions and thoughts...just better your daily live by being in it :)