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rehm101

20 / M / bisexual / Single

Conway, Arkansas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Overweight
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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I am off the beaten path, withdrawn, and strange.

My Self-Summary

I am a psychology student in the middle of nowhere. I tend to come off as quirky, strange and a little bit crazy, but then again, I am aiming at being a psychologist so it is best to know your customer’s :D. I am generally pretty open to conversation about things, I like to think of myself as easy to talk to and most subjects do not ruffle my feathers if they are in a respectful tone.
I think it should be made abundantly clear that I am not looking for sex. Perhaps my ideas of love, romance and sex are considered by most to be idealistic and hopeless, but none the less I wish to find someone to love before I decide to engage in such a biologically astounding act as sex. Also I guess I should explain the bisexual part. I have never been in a sexual relationship before or even a real relationship, not in my romantic sense. As of right now, while I am open to the idea of romantic love with men the idea of sex with men is a bit iffy, I lean towards a more heterosexual side and I find women more attractive myself but I am open to the idea of being in a relationship with another man, it would just have to move slow, though both a straight and gay relationship would have to move slow.
I can at times be a very withdrawn person and I do have to “recharge” my batteries now and then, but for the most part I crave intelligent, thoughtful, philosophical conversation. I don’t like parties, I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, and I don’t do drugs. I have no problems with others doing this stuff, though I tend to avoid smokers due to smell and asthma, but myself I refrain. I don’t mind having dinner out with someone or going places, but bars and parties aren’t really my thing. I would much rather stay home and curl up with a good book or movie, and if it ever happens, perhaps someone to curl up with (hopeless romantic)
I want to find someone that likes conversation, likes laughing together and watching movies or discussing books. Someone that can be themselves and knows who they are or they are at least working on it. I don’t need someone that is just trying to satisfy their carnal cravings for physical lust, I want someone that I can spend all night talking to, laughing and conversing, talking about the mysteries of life, philosophy, life in general. I want someone that I can take this mask off for, that I can let the human being beneath shine through for.
I tend to read a lot, previously it was fantasy fiction but now a days it turns to religious/philosophy oriented material, mostly of atheist origin, I am trying to find my way in the world and learn from others with my world view.

interests: reading, cooking, listening to music, taking quizzes and tests, answering fun questions, watching movies, M*A*S*H

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a student that is majoring in psychology and I love it, its really the one subject I have encountered in college that I enjoy, with a minor in religious studies and if I had more time I would love to minor in philosophy and politics as well.

I’m really good at

being a bit weird I guess, looking shaggy

I would like to say giving advice but I have a hard time making friends so I don't really know and I also have an uncommon view of the world so my advice might be a bit odd.

The first things people usually notice about me

my eyes and the crazy smile on my face, maybe I wear this scary smile to send people running, maybe its a test you have to pass, or maybe it is just a smile

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The Masterharper of Pern is very high on my book list as well as The Count of Monte Cristo and then there is 1984 and at the top is The Complete Hitchhiker's Guide. Ironically enough I focus most of my reading on fantasy and yet the only book that falls into that category that is high on my list is The Masterharper of Pern, the others are classics or comedy/science fiction

For movies: Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Laurence of Arabia, The Princess Bride, V for Vendetta, The Bucket List I'm mostly a comedy and classic sort of guy, I love to laugh and look at the past

Music: All of Coheed and Cambria, Pink Floyd, Rush, Dire Straits, Serj Tankian. I am mostly a rock person, with a dab of classical every now and then metal and alternative

I love stir fry, and to cook ribs and barbecue chicken and, and to bake cookies and make homemade bread. I just love to cook, there are some things I won't cook but I like to try new things and just be in the kitchen with the music going(though I still enjoy these it should be noted that I am a recent vegetarian and so no longer eat or cook meat

The six things I could never do without

1)Music
2) friends
3) long conversations over hot cocoa or some sort of drink
4) night walks when the world has gone asleep and I can hear the sounds of nature and feel nature above the sounds and feel of the city
5)humor
6) books

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What exactly I want to do with my life, death, humanity, all those dark thoughts, where we go from here, how to be a good part of the human race, the hilarity of it all...

On a typical Friday night I am

In my room reading and chatting with online friends, maybe out with a close friend having a conversation over a Dr. Pepper and some breakfast, reading a book and listening to music

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

if you wanna find out what's behind these cold eyes, you'll just have to claw your way through this disguise

You should message me if

I sound interesting, or such.
If you are looking for something more than a sex fling, more than just fumbling in the dark. If you want a human being that thinks and talks, not some animal ready to mate and then move on. If you are an interesting person that finds me interesting and wants to talk