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inquisitive, nomadic, and a mystic at heart

My self-summary Propose an edit

Gentle, articulate, imaginative, affectionate, growing, prone to ponder. Restless and truthful, with crazy dreams and a life-long crush on strangeness. Freshly back on okcupid.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Having a nap. Moving. Feeding the two wolves in my heart.

All the wheels in my life ground to a halt simultaneously over Christmas, and the silence was deafening. I took some time out to regroup, recuperate, rethink, let go, roll with the current, taste the clear bright space between 'things'. Gradually, I learned to inhabit that space. Now, it feels like home. New patterns are forming, in their own sweet time.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Coincidences, rambling, finding pennies in the street, expressing affection, rolling with strange patterns, listening, not playing mind-games, choosing the less-than-easy path for myself. Nearly always. Holding myself to superhuman standards that no one else recognizes.

I've also been told that I give damn good head. 9 out of 10 dentists agree.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

The eyes, the hands, the floppy black hat. The hood, the unmatched socks. The bit of wire that holds my perpetually broken glasses together.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Coffee and fingerless gloves, a coin to flip, a book in my pocket, somewhere else to go, the shoggoth that lives in my ashtray cup. I call him Charlie.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I have a weblog. It's here.

You should message me if Propose an edit

In the past, I've had some luck meeting interesting, nay even quite remarkable people off this site. In their time, two of them have become lovers. At the moment, however, I am quite happily busied with my affairs, conducting my life, and I'm not really 'seeking' anything per se - though I do remain open to new things that may come my way. Which they often do, precisely when you least expect them, when you think you don't need them.

[UPDATE: alas, at least until Christmas, the above is more true than it was when I wrote it. the bit about 'not really looking', that is. work absorbs me so much my family and friends wonder if I'm dead. if I don't reply to your message, don't take offense.]

In general, I am usually in the market for interesting people to go on missions with, explore nooks and crannies, find random things in the street, drink coffee at strange hours, watch movies that no one else likes, mess around in an amusing manner, talk about stuff, find out what makes another person tick.

I've always had a soft spot for fey, gentle, otherworldly creatures. Random, quirky, colourful, affectionate, tactile, lithe, self-aware are all good, as is a taste for monster movies, social theory, highly specialised pillowtalk, late hours, ghosts, gaming, oddball dreams, oracles, watching movies in bed, small woodland animals, japanese pop culture, morbidity, general strangeness yon and sundry. The less you resemble others, the better.

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reindeerboy: 704 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.82m).
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
N/A
Drugs
N/A
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
N/A
Kids
Likes children, but doesn't want any
Pets
N/A
Languages
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Fluently)

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