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rekling

27 / F / gay / Available

Madison, Wisconsin

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am goofy, bright, and dorky.

My Self-Summary

I no longer live in Western MA; I relocated to Madison, WI, in the summer of 2009.

However, I do still love dancing (contact improvisation and other improvisational dance, as well as contra dance), reading, writing in my journal (though I don't do it nearly often enough), and cooking vegan food.

I miss living in organized cooperative houses, and living with cats. When I left Boston, I thought I'd miss the city more than I did living in the woods. Instead, I found myself wanting a smaller city. Madison is not small, but smaller than Boston.

Two years ago, I go into a serious relationship. I had said I wasn't interested in meeting or dating anyone for a while, but I guess sometimes that's not the kind of thing I can decide in advance.

I'm queer, and occasionally identify as gender-fucked or gender non-identified, but these days I mostly feel female. I'm also kinky, and learning more about switching. And, I'm vegan, and have a hard time spending a lot of time around people who aren't vegetarian or vegan.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm in the midst of moving to Madison with my partner of two years. I have a place to live, but not a job yet. So what I'm doing with my life is surfing the unknown.

I hope to arrange my life around traveling to visit friends, and dancing.

And I'd really like to get back to learning Spanish.

I’m really good at

Staying up past bedtime. Cooking food that my roommates seem to like. Forgetting what I've already told someone and repeating myself.

I'm still really good at appearing taller than I am.

The first things people usually notice about me

My curly hair. When they are visible, my tattoos. My septum piercing. That I mumble and talk really quickly.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Accessible books about gender and sexuality and post-colonialism. I hate inaccessible academia, however. Recently, I've rediscovered fiction. Yum.

I still have a soft spot for political documentaries. But I don't see many movies, these days.

Folk music is what I like to listen to, and what I go to concerts of. When I'm dancing, I really like improvisational electronic music. And cellos. Anything with cellos automatically gets bonus points from me.

I'm vegan, and have a love of vegetables of most sorts. I also really like peanut butter and chocolate. Spicy foods are essential, and I eat more garlic than almost anyone I know.

The six things I could never do without

Water, dance, my computer, physical interaction, the ocean, and my journal.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

co-ops. race. mental health. systems. health care systems. mentstrual products. bandanas. gentrification. vegan cookies. intentional communities. dreams. cutting.

how cool it would be if i could videotape my thoughts. what to eat later. the nature of human interaction. conversations i could be having.

what the creepy noises in my house late at night are. what the fastest way to commute is. where my sex drive went. when it will be bedtime.

whether the political system of the US is too big. whether i'm an anarchist or just a curmudgeon. if anyone else in the world thinks that kinky sex and radical politics are related.

On a typical Friday night I am

Wishing I was dancing. Or, hanging out with my partner.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sing to myself, outloud, on the train. This is private because everyone else is wearing their iPod headphones and thus can't tell that I'm doing this. But now everyone knows.

You should message me if

You want to deconstruct society with me.

You think that going to bed at 10pm on a Saturday night sounds like a great time.

You dance contact improv or contra.

You want to give me a massage.

You have something interesting to say.

You want to discuss ways to radically restructure society.

You want to fuck right after that discussion.

You're female or queer or vegan.

You're an 85% or higher match with me; OKC has given me high match scores with most of my friends who use it.

I will likely be too shy to message you, but if I'm interested, I'll definitely write back.