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relaxforonce

39 / M / straight / Single

Omaha, Nebraska

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am very sarcastic, witty, and assertive.

My Self-Summary

I really dislike this part. I'm opinionated. I'm your best friend in the world if we're friends, but there can be a flip side to that...I know who I am & what I like & don't like. I'm charming & obnoxious both, pick a day. Ignorance that is willful bothers me, as well as bad drivers. I drive too fast but I can't say that I really care too much. Ask my adrenaline level how it feels. Endorphines are good & worth earning. I think that anything worth having is worth fighting for. I think that it's a priviledge to have a partner & a tragedy not to. I believe in being real all of the time, not just when it's convenient. Good looks can only get you so far so there better be some personality / substance there underneath it all. Passion for anything seems gone these days, it's all about instant gratification & that's sad. I believe in commitment--it takes over when all of the gushy feelings of true love subside & the real work starts. I said I was opinionated.....

What I’m doing with my life

Enjoying it. Learning to live it. Building a race car to go on the Power Tour with. Learning about what makes people tick.

I’m really good at

Building fast cars & spanking people with them. Being too honest. Procrastinating. Being a gentleman. Being affectionate. Singing, but not dancing.

"Try to make some sense of all of this, we never talk about our lack in relationships. And now we're guilt-stricken sobbin' with our heads on the floor, we fell through the ice when we tried not slip, we'd say........"

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, the window to the soul. My intesity level. My openness.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I don't have time to read much / Manly movies- Bourne Identity, Braveheart, First Blood, Last Of The Mohicans, Terminator, Shooter, Die Hard, most mediaval movies. I am also a sci-fi ADDICT, I love the mindbending stuff. More channel 53 please. / Metal, funk, alternative, r & b / Beef, it's what's for breakfast, lunch AND dinner

The six things I could never do without

My kids / music / cars / healthy sports drinks (including but not limited to: Coke, Pepsi & Corona) / work / the sun

I spend a lot of time thinking about

It's not in the words that you told me It's not in the way you say you're mine It's not in the way that you came back to me It's not in the way that your love set me free It's not in the way that you look or the things that you say that you do

HOLD THE LINE LOVE ISN'T ALWAYS ON TIME

On a typical Friday night I am

Firing up the grille, what else? That's also on Saturdays & Sundays. Then winding down with a movie from blockbuster. (Or maybe drag racing in an unknown zone somewhere here......)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I don't have much that's private.

You should message me if

1) You can take a joke 2) You're in love with sarcasm 3) You like to speed 4) You're a massage therapist who's single & uses your elbows 5) You always take the risk as opposed to walking away

You're not a zombie. I don't like the undead trying to stop over all the time & eat my brain, it gets old after awhile & they can't carry ANY type of converstion.....