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28 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:23am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a descriptivist pedant, gentle by preference, talkative, honest, and smart; I enjoy well-picked words, genuine smiles, healthy boundaries, and people who are also into those things. I'm a geek in the "curiosity and technical aptitude" sense, but not really in the "gaming and sci-fi" sense. I like creating things and am not too fussed about what the things are (favorite tools for this include pencils, compilers, and crochet hooks).

I'm agender, which is to say, neither a man nor a woman; my pronoun is singular they, like you'd use for an unknown or nonspecific person. I'm most often romantically interested in men and fellow nonbinary people.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying for a bachelor's in applied linguistics with a minor in computer science, working in PSU's engineering college's volunteer IT department, singing with the university choir, and running a Magic club. I try to squeeze homework and laundry in there, with mixed success.

Realistically, I don't have enough time and energy left over to spend much of either on a romantic relationship. I'd still love to hear from you if you're awesome and think I'm awesome, though. Especially if you would be happy seeing someone infrequently but enthusiastically.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Appreciating silly things, and also mundane ones. Explaining patiently. Programming. Going with the flow. Understanding rules well enough to know when to break them. Taking care of people I love. Loving. Playing Tetris. Writing lists.

Lately I'm learning that I can organize, I can speak in front of an audience, and I can lead. This is exciting, and I want to use these powers for good.
The first things people usually notice about me
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If you just see me in passing, faceful of piercings. If you meet me socially, I'm smiley and I talk fast. If you meet me at work, I'm competent and professional and I still talk fast.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I find these lists super boring. Sorry. If you're really interested, we can have a conversation about it and find the common ground that way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Strong human connections.
Adequate sleep.
Crunchy things and sweet things. Caramel corn is basically the best.
A way to get around: bike, bus pass, etc.
Opportunities to sing.
Double articulation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People who are nearby, and people I care about who aren't nearby. Language and meaning; how to actually communicate well. Needs and gut feelings. Identity, privilege, and bias. Whichever Magic deck I'm testing right now. (Ask me about my frog tribal combo.) The stuff I have to do today.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the CAT Braindump, nearly without exception. I'm happy to explain this upon request, but I should warn you that I'll talk your ear off if you don't object because I love it and love talking about it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm kinky. It's not a huge part of my social or sexual identity, though.
You should message me if
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* You respect other people, me, and yourself.
* It seems like we have similar values.
* You like hanging out in places where you can easily hold a conversation (so coffee shops and quiet bars over clubs and concerts).

Please let me know that you saw the bit about being agender (even if you didn't understand it--I don't mind elaborating). Otherwise I end up unsure whether you missed it and are thinking I'm a lady, and that's awkward.