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28 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:37pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a descriptivist pedant, gentle by preference, talkative, honest, and smart; I enjoy well-picked words, genuine smiles, healthy boundaries, and people who are also into those things. I'm a geek in the "curiosity and technical aptitude" sense, but not really in the "gaming and sci-fi" sense. I like creating things and am not too fussed about what the things are (favorite media include pencils, Python, and yarn).

I'm agender, which is to say, neither a man nor a woman. (My pronoun is singular they, like you'd use for an unknown or nonspecific person.) I'm most often romantically interested in men and fellow nonbinary people, which isn't really covered by straight or gay, so I just went with the most inclusive option.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying for a bachelor's in applied linguistics with a minor in computer science, working with PSU's engineering college IT department, singing with the university choir, and playing Magic. I try to squeeze in homework and laundry, too, with mixed success.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Appreciating silly things, and also mundane ones. Trying something new. Explaining patiently. Going with the flow. Understanding rules well enough to know when to break them. Taking care of people. Playing Tetris. Writing lists.
The first things people usually notice about me
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If you just see me in passing, faceful of piercings. If you meet me socially, I'm smiley and I talk fast. If you meet me at work, I'm competent and professional and I still talk fast.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I find these lists super boring. Sorry. If you're really interested, we can have a conversation about it and find the common ground that way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Strong human connections.
Adequate sleep.
Crunchy things and sweet things. Caramel corn is basically the best.
A way to get around: bike, bus pass, etc.
Opportunities to sing.
Double articulation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The people who are nearby, and the people I care about who aren't nearby. Language and meaning; how to actually communicate well. Needs and gut feelings. Identity, privilege, and bias. Whichever Magic deck I'm testing right now. (Ask me about my frog tribal combo.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the CAT Braindump, nearly without exception.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm kinky. It's not a huge part of my social or sexual identity, but I figured that if you are too (or aren't sure) this might be useful information.
You should message me if
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You respect other people, me, and yourself; it seems like we have similar values; you like hanging out in places where you can easily hold a conversation (so coffee shops and quiet bars over clubs and concerts).

Please let me know that you saw the bit about being agender (even if you didn't understand it--I don't mind elaborating). Otherwise I end up unsure whether you missed it and are thinking I'm a lady, and that's awkward.