I am a 42 yo divorced man for the past 4 years. I have two teen
children who are or about to start their own dating thing. My
children live with me full time. I am a Design Engineer, I love
what I do, I always have a passion for challenges, no routine
reputation in what I do.
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I enjoy
movies
mostly sci-fi, action, Marvel Comic or movies that are soon to be
iconic ie. Grand Torino, Beer fest. I also enjoy
camping there is nothing better
than living out doors.
Biking,
Golfing (kinda suck at it),watching a
huge storm roll in, I like to enjoy things that most people usually
take for granted. I also enjoy
music rock mostly, big into Floyd and
Zepplin, some country, Jonny Cash, Bob Dylan, absolutely hate
Rap...it's not my thing. I lived through the 80's era...lets just
say, "I'm glad its over".
I'm looking for a woman who out grew her materialistic and petty
teenage quirks. I like women who knows how to be a woman. Someone
who would like to work out differences, rather than tell all her
friends and ask for their opinion. A woman who wants to be treated
like she deserves.
I don't mind a person who misspells words or is open with her
feelings. Cautious of being hurt, but not make me have to prove my
self worthy. That can work both ways you know. It can be difficult
meeting new people, finding common qualities takes time.
I have been told that I am a unique thinking person. I do like to
look at things with multiple perspectives,probably manifested from
my profession. I can be a dork sometimes but is that a bad thing.
I'm not at all serious unless it involves my kids well being.
During the winter months I enjoy
snowmobiling, sitting by a warm
fire, watching
hockey or
basketball on the tele. During the
summer months I enjoy a good long bike ride or going to the ball
game.
Things going on in my life ... my daughter dating boys...I try to
be open about it...it's tough. lol.
My son is just starting to chase the ladies...let their dads sweat
it a little....just kidding he's a good kid.
I have a kitty, his name is PITA...(Pain In The Ass) He lives up to
his name.
I have a five year goal....hopefully I will be an empty nester with
my new girl (could be you), I have always wanted to go to Germany
for a few month visit. Ideally during Octoberfest.
If I keep gabbing about myself I won't have anything to say when
you contact me. Anyways don't be shy I really am a great guy. I am
very open to just about anything. Hope to chat with you soon.
I'm a believer in life experiences as a journey. I had many journey
some good, some bad. These journeys put together make you into what
you are as a person. My journey right now is to keep from falling
into the poor economic meltdown and providing the best I can for my
children. My parallel journey is to find peace and harmony in my
life, seeking my 'soul mate'.
construction, fixing the car....you know... handyman stuff.
I'm a Design Engineer in the automotive sense. I enjoy keeping my
landscape well groomed as well as growing my little veggie garden
for my homemade salsa.
A lot of people judge by whats on the out side and miss all the
wonderful things on the inside. After getting to know me I can be
very charming. My personality is usually what people notice about
me. Then they often want to know what i'm all about.
Books....don't really read books. Comic books maybe. lol
Movies....action, sci-fi flicks. Surround sound, HD junkie ...love
high quality audio video flicks.
Music....mostly Rock ....i'm open to a variety.
Food....Thai food of course, is there anything better?????
Mexican food is up there too...gotta love the fajitas.
The hotter the better...haven't found my limit yet....
1. My kids.....love em to death
2. my family..can't live with em, can't live without them.
3. my friends...everyone needs friends.
4. my soulmate...(could be you) :-)
5. my house....got to have a roof over my head.
6. my truck...thats how I roll.
Life and what it has to offer. See some of the world when the kids
move out. I have a 5 year goal .....Octoberfest in Germany. What
did you think? sight seeing? lol. I enjoy a good cold beer once in
a while. I am a real man you know.
I think about if I will ever fall in love again. I think about
getting old. I think about my future....the pages of life are empty
with hopes to be filled with good memories, relationships, growing
family....love.
inviting my friends and neighbors over for a night around the
bon-fire, tell jokes, stories, few drinks, laughs....just a good
time.
you will have to ask me. Private things are just that....private.
....you are a woman who knows how to be a woman. Don't be shy, If
you really think you are interested in me, let me know. If you
aren't sure, simply send me a wink. If I reply with a wink then
don't let a possible match slip by. I am really a good guy with a
big heart and a good soul.