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remark4636

43 / M / straight / Single

Dearborn, Michigan

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am funny, smart, and easy going.

My Self-Summary

I am a 42 yo divorced man for the past 4 years. I have two teen children who are or about to start their own dating thing. My children live with me full time. I am a Design Engineer, I love what I do, I always have a passion for challenges, no routine reputation in what I do.
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I enjoy movies mostly sci-fi, action, Marvel Comic or movies that are soon to be iconic ie. Grand Torino, Beer fest. I also enjoy camping there is nothing better than living out doors. Biking, Golfing (kinda suck at it),watching a huge storm roll in, I like to enjoy things that most people usually take for granted. I also enjoy music rock mostly, big into Floyd and Zepplin, some country, Jonny Cash, Bob Dylan, absolutely hate Rap...it's not my thing. I lived through the 80's era...lets just say, "I'm glad its over".

I'm looking for a woman who out grew her materialistic and petty teenage quirks. I like women who knows how to be a woman. Someone who would like to work out differences, rather than tell all her friends and ask for their opinion. A woman who wants to be treated like she deserves.

I don't mind a person who misspells words or is open with her feelings. Cautious of being hurt, but not make me have to prove my self worthy. That can work both ways you know. It can be difficult meeting new people, finding common qualities takes time.

I have been told that I am a unique thinking person. I do like to look at things with multiple perspectives,probably manifested from my profession. I can be a dork sometimes but is that a bad thing. I'm not at all serious unless it involves my kids well being.

During the winter months I enjoy snowmobiling, sitting by a warm fire, watching hockey or basketball on the tele. During the summer months I enjoy a good long bike ride or going to the ball game.

Things going on in my life ... my daughter dating boys...I try to be open about it...it's tough. lol.
My son is just starting to chase the ladies...let their dads sweat it a little....just kidding he's a good kid.
I have a kitty, his name is PITA...(Pain In The Ass) He lives up to his name.

I have a five year goal....hopefully I will be an empty nester with my new girl (could be you), I have always wanted to go to Germany for a few month visit. Ideally during Octoberfest.

If I keep gabbing about myself I won't have anything to say when you contact me. Anyways don't be shy I really am a great guy. I am very open to just about anything. Hope to chat with you soon.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a believer in life experiences as a journey. I had many journey some good, some bad. These journeys put together make you into what you are as a person. My journey right now is to keep from falling into the poor economic meltdown and providing the best I can for my children. My parallel journey is to find peace and harmony in my life, seeking my 'soul mate'.

I’m really good at

construction, fixing the car....you know... handyman stuff.
I'm a Design Engineer in the automotive sense. I enjoy keeping my landscape well groomed as well as growing my little veggie garden for my homemade salsa.

The first things people usually notice about me

A lot of people judge by whats on the out side and miss all the wonderful things on the inside. After getting to know me I can be very charming. My personality is usually what people notice about me. Then they often want to know what i'm all about.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books....don't really read books. Comic books maybe. lol

Movies....action, sci-fi flicks. Surround sound, HD junkie ...love high quality audio video flicks.

Music....mostly Rock ....i'm open to a variety.

Food....Thai food of course, is there anything better?????
Mexican food is up there too...gotta love the fajitas.
The hotter the better...haven't found my limit yet....

The six things I could never do without

1. My kids.....love em to death
2. my family..can't live with em, can't live without them.
3. my friends...everyone needs friends.
4. my soulmate...(could be you) :-)
5. my house....got to have a roof over my head.
6. my truck...thats how I roll.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life and what it has to offer. See some of the world when the kids move out. I have a 5 year goal .....Octoberfest in Germany. What did you think? sight seeing? lol. I enjoy a good cold beer once in a while. I am a real man you know.
I think about if I will ever fall in love again. I think about getting old. I think about my future....the pages of life are empty with hopes to be filled with good memories, relationships, growing family....love.

On a typical Friday night I am

inviting my friends and neighbors over for a night around the bon-fire, tell jokes, stories, few drinks, laughs....just a good time.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

you will have to ask me. Private things are just that....private.

You should message me if

....you are a woman who knows how to be a woman. Don't be shy, If you really think you are interested in me, let me know. If you aren't sure, simply send me a wink. If I reply with a wink then don't let a possible match slip by. I am really a good guy with a big heart and a good soul.