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46 San Ramon, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:58pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Has kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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I'm an old school, modern gentleman who likes new music, new food, and new ideas. I'm kind, gritty, active, and affectionate. I will usually take the lead unless asked to follow and I have a special knack for living in the moment.

Let's see...I went to school for art, I'm a twin, left handed, and the father of two gorgeous sons who are still at an age where they think I'm a genius....we'll see how long that lasts. I just try my best to give them wise words, life experiences, and tons of kisses.

I have a satisfying job that keeps me happy, comfortable, and allows me tons of freedom.
And I'm planning awesome weekends. We're biking, hiking, golfing, snowboarding, camping, and hanging out at the lake. I'd hope you'd like some of that knowing there will be times we use valet, room service, and the spa. I love to spend the day or night in any city. When we go out I'll dress deceptively hip and if you needed to dance I'd probably surprise you.

The furthest I've been from home was Pakistan and was lucky to have lived in Costa Rica for a few years. One thing my travels have taught me is that bigger is not always better. I find it interesting to see and learn how religion has shaped different cultures around the world. However, I'm not a believer in todays version of religion. Instead I feel that energy in the mountains, near the ocean, and by just trying to practice kindness and patience...
...I fail daily:)

All that sounds great, maybe, I hope? I guess it's all in the pics...but most days I'm just a quirky, thoughtful, confident guy who likes talk and laugh while making dinner and drinking wine in the kitchen. I'm looking for one active, sensual, sarcastic, and clever woman to share it all with.
What I’m doing with my life
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A few things I must do often to keep me sane:
Get into the Sierras
Spend a Sunday with Mom
Happy hour in the city
Cook outside
Have amazing sex
Hike a loop
Board a plane
Play ball w/ my boys
Clean my house
Golf w/ my buddies
Tend to my garden
Enjoy a shore side meal
Do my expense reports
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering the little details
Figuring it out and fixing it
Motivating a team
Making a meal look delicious
Cracking you up
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sincerity w/ a quiet confidence....I've been told I have nice shoulders.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Read - I like to be informed on political, economic, and social events. Flipboard, NYT, Reddit, NPR...

Movies - Searching for "the 50 best films you haven't seen". I prefer a good story over a shoot em' up blockbuster.

TV - There is some god awful TV out there, but I'd say Game of Thrones, The Layover, FoodTv, 49ers, Giants.

Music - Right now it's Chet Faker, Hozier, Rufus, Phoenix, Echosmith. I've always liked Latin music, but cannot endure modern country.

Foods - Hamachi w/ jalepeños, carnitas w/ fresh tortillas, ceviche w/ avocado, artichokes w/ aiolí...cuvees, single malts, and IPA's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sons/family
Spice rack
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How awesome life is...and what's for dinner? Occasionally I'll get fired up on corporate tax havens, I think it's the Greek in me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm naughty and nice without the tattoos and Dockers....
You should message me if
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