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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 12
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, I'm not sure where to begin, especially since I find it difficult to talk about myself in such detail. It's not that I am trying to hide anything, it's just that I can be very shy at first until I get to know someone. I am very open and honest about pretty much everything in my life and I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I am definitely a romantic in the fact that I would love to meet someone and immediately fall in love them like they do in the movies, but I am also a realist. I know that, that hardly ever happens, so I get to go through the process of dating and working my way through a lot of amazing guys to find the one that is right for me. And I guess the big question is, "Does anyone ever go on more than one date anymore?".

But definitely say hey and let's see what happens. I'm definitely ready to open myself to who is ready to open themselves up to someone else. (did that make sense? i don't mean for it to sound dirty. well maybe a little. :) )

Oh yeah, I live in Brooklyn.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What am I doing with my life? hmmmmm that's such a big question. I think the best way to answer it is I am doing a lot. I am very focused on my career at the moment. I am on the technical/management side of the theatre industry and I really enjoy it. I love it so much I want to do whatever I can do keep moving forward. I am also constantly working on myself. None of us are perfect, but I make an effort everyday to be kind to everyone I come across as well as try to set a good example to not only my peers and friends but those who don't know me. I am far from perfect, but I can at least say I try and I want to make as big of a difference as I can in other peoples lives.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
.....making others smile. I am definitely an easy going guy. I think that may have something to do with my Southern upbringing. I even have good manners. :) But I do what I can to make others happy. I like to joke around and I don't take most things to seriously. Life is to short to focus on the bad/negative things. I am also very generous to those in my life as well. I am not necessarity talking about money stuff, but with my friendship, time, love, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not really sure - but if I had to guess it might be my smile and the slight southern accent that seems to pop up from time to time. I've been gone from the south for so long it's pretty much gone, but some people ask me where I am from because of my accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books:
The Alchemist, To Kill A Mockingbird , The Lion, The Witch And The Wardrobe, The Catcher In The Rye, The Grapes of Wrath, Gone With The Wind, Life Of Pi, Great Expectations, The Great Gatsby, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, The Harry Potter Series, The Hunger Games Series, The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo series and pretty much anything written by David Sedaris. I am always looking for something new to read. If you have any suggestions let me know.

Favorite Movies:
There are so many great movies out there. I guess to give a short list here are a few: Back to the Future, Goodfellas, The Silence of the Lambs, Harold and Maude, American Beauty, Strictly Ballroom, Sunset Boulevard, Valley of the Dolls, Mommy Dearest, 9 to 5, Planes, Trains, and Automobiles, The Fugitive, All About Eve, One Flew Over the Cukoo's Nest, Psycho, To Kill A Mockingbird, Forrest Gump, The Shawshank Redemption, Fargo, Magnolia, Pulp Fiction, E.T., A Clockwork Orange, Boogie Nights, Moulin Rouge, etc. The list can go on and on. I like everything from a romantic comedy to horror and everything in between.

Favorite Shows:
Since I work in the business, it's hard to not be overly critical of any show that I see. I will save this list for when we meet so we can have something to talk about.

Favorite Food:
I like most all food. There's nothing I won't try at least once, within reason.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This was the hardest section to fill out, but they are in no particular order.

-Interaction with others
-Friends and Family
-My career
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. lucky i am in my life. I have been very fortunate to be able to experience things in my life that many other people my age wouldn't have even imagined. This is both the god, bad and really bad. They all make me the person I am today.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows. Every week is different. I could be home watching tv or be out with friends having dinner and then drinks afterwards.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That's for the second date. :)
You should message me if
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you are looking for more than a hook-up. And if you want that please be upfront about it.......if you are willing to go on more than one date.......if you like what you see in my pictures and/or read in my profile.......if you are truly looking for someone to compliment your life and you are open to letting someone else into your just say hey and lets see what happens.