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59 • Corrales, NM • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 34–61
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Has dogs
I've done everything from Fire Fighter / Paramedic to Chimney Sweep. Sold cars and trucks, musical instruments and solar and wood heating equipment. I love learning for learning's sake and seem to know a little about just about everything, which can be a little handy and sometimes annoying ;-)
Most who meet me would swear I'm early 40's and over the phone my 30's. Go figure?
I love nature and like to be outside except in the severe heat 90+. A walker more than a hiker.
I love food but the practical side of me doesn't care for trendy, snooty yuppie food (read that as expensive). I would rather cook in with someone and enjoy the company and connection.
So what am I looking for? I've been able to create a space/home that is unique to itself. Green without sacrificing comfort. Practical and functional. I have the living area 2400 sq ft (house), a 2,000 sq ft mechanical shop area, a 600 sq ft work shop for wood working, stone working, painting......... And there is a music area to come. 600 sq ft with one of the best views in Albq. All in the secure comfort of Corrales.
If you are artistic and creative and the thought of sharing that life with someone appeals to you, it feels like a waste to have it all to myself ;-)
Giving some thought to where I might want to live if I left NM or the US.
Vilcabamba Ecuador, looks like heaven 50-88 degrees year round and moist enough to grow anything with out being soggy and tropical. It looks like a green New Mexico. I guess I should learn some Spanish first huh ;-)
I would not claim this just by myself, but I've been told I'm the best Framer around Albq. I have a different set of values and ethics. And to me it's done right when it can't be done any better. That might have something to do with it. But I put my heart and soul into it. After it's said and done I let my work speak for itself.
Understanding the concept of communication. That it entails not only talking (or writing) but listening ;-)
Movies: Just about anything, but not to into overly gory horror, seen it first hand, don't need it for entertainment.
Music: Open to almost anything except for Rap, hip hop, and whinny country. I really still dig. 65 thru 75 hard rock.
I'll pass on the required, Air, Water, Food, Shelter.....
Nash now ;-)
Learning cool new stuff.
Adventure, doing cool new stuff.
Motorcycling If you're into it. Nothing beats our wide open spaces and mountains like seeing it on a bike, not through a windshield.
Exploring 4x4 stuff trails forest roads, places the bikes can't get to.
Camping, in style, in the U Haul camper.
Music, playing and listening.
Exciting new foods.
But I'm open to going out if there is something to do. Well, someone to do something with.
I have no secrets to those I know, but here?
You think the idea of an underground dome house designed by NASA in the shape of a chicken egg and made of concrete and steel sounds cool to you. Just think the Rolls Royce of Earth ships.
Age: I am open to, and often attracted to women much younger that myself. The last woman I dated was 35.
What I have found is many people, both men and women my age or 45-60. Act "old" by that I mean they have "grown up" and you can read that as "jaded". They have lost that child like wonder of the world and have "settled in" for the rest of their lives. No thank you.
I am open to anyone outside of New Mexico, if you understand that I am rooted here and won't be moving.
*At the risk of being labeled a "shallow Hal" and I want to apologize in advance to anyone whose toes I might step on.
I want to try to create a healthy life style, and part of that is trying to stay close to HWP. My last partner left a bitter taste in my mouth re: the weight issue. I'm not small and will never be. I'm just stocky, and I'm not "looking" for a Barbie, or skinny. But there needs to be an attraction. I know the reality of it, and I'm sure I get written off all the time for being stocky, bald etc, only being 5"9". So please have, or be able to provide a recent full picture of yourself . A few extra pounds does not really mean 40-80, please just be honest. It sucks to get emotionally invested in someone only to find out the attraction just isn't there when you find out what they really look like. An awesome personality if paramount, but being physically attracted to one another and compatible has it's own importance.
I think at this point, I would prefer someone who doesn't drink regularly 2-3 beers or more a night, do drugs and doesn't smoke. Bad experience last time.
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