I guess I have to post this. If you are NOT ready for a connection to be a GOOD thing. If things going well and moving forward into a relationship, scares you, or you are not ready for that. Please skip past me or let me know if I contact you.
If you are looking for "friends" or "activity partners" the same applies. Every relationship should have a friendship as a foundation, that is not what I am referring to. If you are not ready for a relationship, maybe joining an Albuquerque Meetup Group activity would be more appropriate.
I'm sorry to have to make a point of this but it has become a real problem and huge waste of time and energy.
I'm sure you have heard of the Wolf in Sheep's clothing. Well I'm the Sheep in Wolfs clothing. So what am I talking about? While I might look like the bad boy biker dude. I'm actually very much the nice guy. I think a man can be sensitive without being wimpy, strong without being aggressive, assertive without being a bully.
Age: Most of my customers and people I meet think I'm in my early 40's. And I'm pretty sure I could get away with it, but that would be a lie from the start. On the phone people are surprised I'm not in my 30's but I have no idea what that means. I guess what I'm trying to say is age is but a number. If you take care of yourself you are pretty much as old as you act (good or bad). I have accepted maturing, but I will never grow up ;-)
I don't know that this format has helped. While it does offer access to many people. It seems like it has turned it into a shopping spree. With lots of window shoppers, with no intention of opening the door to see what really inside. That being said, I'm taking a break from making the first contact because I'm just tired of having to create interesting letters and having to try to "sell myself", only to be dismissed.
I know this is a dating site and it all starts there. But that being said, I'm looking to fall in love again. I was lucky enough to experience a really great love, and I want to feel that again.
It seems so simple, in theory. I have worked hard to get where I am and a, looking for someone to share it with.
I believe life can be a fairy tale. With all it's wonder and excitement. Life can be as simple or as complex as we make it. As good or as bad. As innocent or as dark, it's our lives to choose.
If that feels to unrealistic for you, I might not be the right man.
I am emotionally open, healthy, and available and I need to know that who ever I meet is as well. I am a hopeful romantic and in many ways quite old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I know that internet dating can seem a bit disconnected and impersonal, but it is after all just a way to meet people. Where it goes from there can still be magical if you are open to it. I am looking for someone to create that spark you get when you touch. Not the one from wool socks on carpet, but that's cool to.
Back to the age thing, again it's only a number. I've been with women in their 30's who only wanted to drink,eat, and sleep...very boring. And I have been with women older than I that were truly young at heart and you would swear they were 20 younger than they were.
It's how your hearts connect that matters.