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repeat_defender

43 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:33pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
ah, summer. who lives near the rockaways and wants to have a beach date con migo? it involves having to see me in a bathing suit, but.

"When people on OKCupid say they want a 'partner in crime' I think that just means someone to enable their low-level alcoholism." —a friend

favorite thing seen on okc lately: "i am easy to get alone with."

I recognize that I am male, but i like to think of myself as pretty high-functioning. once, like cat power, i wanted to be the greatest. now, i just have occasional delusions of adequacy. i can follow a recipe. i know that, as the old hymn says, god's not finished with me yet, but i have occasionally been told, "don't go changing." i'm not afraid to get my hands dirty. i might have been born yesterday, but I stayed up all night. i will make a great dad one day. or at least a great dog dad. i am an effing maniac for kids and dogs. (though, don't get me wrong, i'm not necessarily trying to spawn any children, like, tomorrow. much less father a dog.)
What I’m doing with my life
working very hard on getting free.

that said, for work, i write and edit at an art magazine, which, for a guy who as a kid wanted to be a writer (or heavy metal drummer) and went on to study art history, is unbelievably great, and for which i'm very thankful. for fun, i see art, i ride my single-speed bike, sometimes to the movies, or to rock shows. i meet dogs in the street, i laff it up with my friends, and i read a lot. i meditate (bhavatu sabba mangalam!), sometimes more than others. without, i hope, excessively judging people or being pedantic, i champion proper english grammar and usage (except capitalization, obvsly), but i find abbrevs hilair (except the word veggies, which I find highly objectionable). i'm working on my capacity to be a friend among friends and a worker among workers, and to truly connect with people. in short: GTL.
I’m really good at
making people laugh. and you know what they say about laughing. it's like jogging, but on the inside.

tweeting. take a look at Proofreading Hulk (@proofinghulk) and Saddam Hussein (@fakesaddam). will date for follows.

being punctual. and i really appreciate the same. i mean, we all get held up now and then, but. you know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
jeffrey eugenides, vladimir nabokov, jonathan franzen, chris ware, marilynne robinson, david foster wallace, jonathan lethem, the tao te ching, the road, the new yorker magazine.

the hurt locker, the white ribbon, the lives of others, the big lebowski, the royal tenenbaums, the matrix, the diving bell and the butterfly, the usual suspects, the future is unwritten, l'avventura, la jetee.

as for teevee, i don't watch much outside of the daily show and the colbert report.

das racist, spoon, the band, cat power, battles, liz phair, foxy shazam, gang of four, interpol, pj harvey, miles davis, iron and wine, bon iver, guided by voices, jim o'rourke, radiohead, steely dan, the smiths, rocket from the crypt, vampire weekend, sloan, don caballero, chinese classical music, regular old classical music.

i can rarely say no to sushi.
The six things I could never do without
modern medicine and technology.
a good dictionary.
my eyeglasses.
vulnerability.
intimacy.
olives.

as for what I could do without, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD STOP POSTING PICTURES OF YOURSELF WITH A MUSTACHE WHY DO YOU THINK THAT IS HOT

also, "sapiosexual." just don't.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why i've never once gotten a note saying "you and [user name] gave each other one or two stars!" that would be funny.

who is going to play me in the movie.
On a typical Friday night I am
at the opera with your mama and your papa just for fun like "where you at, man?" "i'm with your family, dog."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
first off, I hate to admit it but it drives me crazy when people can't come up with a good answer to this question. yes, your answer is public. (although, news flash, no one here knows who you are!) yes, it's going out on the internet. so think of the most private thing you're wiling to admit *in this forum.* and make it interesting, k? or just leave it blank!

as for me, i enjoy certain music and movies that i am not sure i would want the world to know i like. maybe what i shouldn't want to admit is that rather than just being comfortable liking what i like, i have guilty pleasures. and that i care whether others think i'm cool.

and, i really wish i'd made my username nothing_personalz.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you can stop me before it comes to this.

you have a delightfully devious sense of fun. you are warm and giving. you rock the house that rocks the party that rocks the house.

this means you.