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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:54pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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once, like cat power, i wanted to be the greatest. now, i just have occasional delusions of adequacy. i know that, as the old hymn says, god's not finished with me yet, but i have occasionally been told, "don't go changing." i might have been born yesterday, but I stayed up all night.
What I’m doing with my life
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working on getting free.

for work, i write about art. for fun, i meet dogs in the street, i laff it up with my friends, and i read a lot. without, i hope, excessively judging people or being pedantic, i champion proper english grammar and usage (except capitalization, obvsly), but i find abbrevs hilair (except the word veggies). i'm working on my capacity to be a friend among friends and a worker among workers, and to truly connect with people. in short: GTL.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh. and you know what they say about laughing. it's like jogging, but on the inside.
The first things people usually notice about me
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the ski mask. the handgun.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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jeffrey eugenides, vladimir nabokov, jonathan franzen, chris ware, marilynne robinson, david foster wallace, jonathan lethem, the tao te ching, the road, the new yorker magazine.

the hurt locker, the white ribbon, the lives of others, the big lebowski, the royal tenenbaums, the matrix, the diving bell and the butterfly, the usual suspects, the future is unwritten, l'avventura, la jetée.

as for teevee, i don't watch much outside of the daily show. no teevee dramas, thanks, just not my drug.

das racist, spoon, the band, cat power, battles, liz phair, foxy shazam, gang of four, interpol, pj harvey, miles davis, iron and wine, bon iver, guided by voices, jim o'rourke, radiohead, steely dan, the smiths, rocket from the crypt, vampire weekend, sloan, don caballero, chinese classical music, regular old classical music.

i can rarely say no to sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
modern medicine and technology.
a good dictionary.
my eyeglasses.

as for what I could do without, "sapiosexual." just don't.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
who is going to play me in the movie.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at the opera with your mama and your papa just for fun like "where you at, man?" "i'm with your family, dog."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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first off, I hate to admit it but it drives me crazy when people can't come up with a good answer to this question. yes, your answer is public. (although, news flash, no one here knows who you are!) yes, it's going out on the internet. so think of the most private thing you're wiling to admit *in this forum.* and make it interesting, k? or just leave it blank! under no circumstances say "that's private." leave. it. blank.

see the following for one possible answer.

as for me, i enjoy certain music and movies that i am not sure i would want the world to know i like. maybe what i shouldn't want to admit is that rather than just being comfortable liking what i like, i have guilty pleasures. and that i care whether others think i'm cool.

and, i really wish i'd made my username nothing_personalz.
You should message me if
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you can stop me before it comes to this.

you have a delightfully devious sense of fun. you are warm and giving. you rock the house that rocks the party that rocks the house.