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27 Perth Amboy, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-31
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:21pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
High school
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Korean (Somewhat), Thai (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Currently, I have rediscovered that the airline industry is where i want to be, as a career path, and have been putting quite a bit of time researching and figuring out where i stand.
At the moment: I am trying to land a job as a Flight Attendant (another job that will have me away from 'home' for days at a time - potentially)

Cannot say that i am at the same speed of people my age. Never been married, or had kids; no college degree or college life; no job i would claim is a career; no extensive list of partners (that disgusts me, actually); no debt slave status (anymore.. car, bike, personal loan etc.); no immediate interest in settling down.

Lots of negatives going on in there when you consider this is a website meant for relationships.

I enjoy being able to go anywhere without planning and asking. Sorry, I was rather tied down to a factory job for seven and a half years and absolutely hated my life because of that.

So now i'm putting my sights on travels and experiences. Still feels like i haven't had my fun out of life yet, or figured out what my likes and dislikes are.

Really dislike planning things out (depends on what though), and have always felt that things more than likely don't go as planned; winging it brings on the notion of not knowing what is going to happen - this contradicts my style of wanting to know things. However; my learning style is one of seeking and experiencing (rather than being told and accepting).
I've, somewhat, ignored and have put off seeking relationships due to shyness, self criticism, anxiety issues, and have to admit a certain fear (among others). My peers have not really shown me success in that department of variable messes.

A great bit of uncertainty comes across with my very own experiences and over-extending of my attention and efforts. It really does kill the energy of looking to get back in a relationship, now feeling there to be a high chance of unappreciated efforts.

Still a dreamer with restrained dreams to act on. Hard to want to be a debt slave, so i opted for saving for things long ago. So a financially dependent or irresponsible person is a huge turn off.
I'm not one to act on my male urges recklessly, so you will not see me go after just a body. There is interest in the mind; but don't catch me on some bullsh** - the body does matter too (and I'm not going to be a hypocrite - I consciously tear myself apart if i indulge and do not work it out)
I feel that a persons preferences aren't always absolute. But they damn sure are a persons right to have, and change by their own will.

I suppose i'm optimistic and also my own worst enemy in certain cases.

Out of all this garbage of a self summary: i'm sure nothing comes off as exciting. I do not have a whole lot of friends or social interactions with peers where i can show my joyful/cheery side (within the U.S.)
My element isn't the stay in town go to the bar, club, local scene, localized culture thing.
I'm really a different person when i leave Illinois (and even the U.S.).
Interactions in different geological locations are kind of interesting and exciting.
Age groups don't really matter. Though, i usually get along with others that are much older or younger. Then again, I've never really bothered assimilating with my own for too long.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Preparing my resume, my interviewing skills, and gather references to try and make a transition into the airline industry.
I've discovered that i crave interaction and do quite well with what might be considered customer service.

Not modeling anymore (though it wasn't really a regular thing)

Quite late in my life to be discovering a passion or career interest; but I've always worked better at ignoring social/cultural expectations.

pursuit to experience more culture; cannot say america has kept my interest.

Trying to get back into making music, and on a much better level.
Explore more of my artistic side.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Stubborn independence?
I can be humorous at random times.
Getting others involved in spontaneous adventures that may/may not turn out bad.
Want to say I have a mean sense of intuition, but hardly express what they are when I get them.
Getting others to get really chatty and change attitudes (interpersonal?)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
.. I have gotten that i look like Tom Cruise more than a handful of times from people.

I wear an unapproachable face.. but, really, I've repressed enough past emotional pain.. I'm really a cheery person and want to be happy!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Finding myself interested in the Vietnam War Era (books).

I've been a huge fan of Zatoichi movies.
Sci-fi/scary stuff.
Interest in anime stuffs.

Music: Trance, instrumentals, movie scores, groove beats, trip hop, death metal, prog. metal, liquid DnB, vocal trance.

Cannot say I am really picky with food; my main issue is choosing things i haven't had vs. things i have had.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Warm/hot weather

Freedom to enjoy that warm/hot weather

A few good friends


Intuition/gut feeling

sleep.. meh, I can be an insomniac at times also.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When I'll be taking a vacation to japan.


What direction my life is headed and why i am not controlling it 100%

Being back out on my own again.

Breaking out of comfort and open up to the world.

Relationships. Yeah.. but i do not really do much about it.

Where I want to live. (lol, resolved! I want to be all over the damn place!)

Where I should be at in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing or going to the gym.
If the weather is nice, I'd like to spend it outdoors and stargazing or driving around.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You read everything and don't send me a message that corners me into having to make the conversation.
For example: Whats up?, Hi, How are you, what's good?, you wanna hang?, blah blah...

Please don't expect others to understand text talk, either. It is annoying to have to google almost every "word." And I do not enjoy the headache from decoding.