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42 M Santa Cruz, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:26pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English, Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
As long as I keep learning in life while keeping it fun it keeps me on my toes and smiling.

Living where the mountains and ocean meet keeps life constantly rewarding. Spending my time playing outside, enjoying crazy enough time with friends, reading, cooking, and making or listening to music. The ocean is my true passion, from surfing to sailing, any way I can spend time on it makes me happy, and that said ... I love the mountains too ... and the desert definitely has charm! As long as I can keep outside regularly, have time to sit, think and read, and get to enjoy the company good friends and people, it keeps a smile on my face.
What I’m doing with my life
is an evolving process. I believe in trying to live every day to its best. To learn something every day, to teach something every day, and to try and create something every day. I am happy in my career and my recreation :)
I’m really good at
talking to people, at least I think I am good at it. No one has complained to me .... much. The water is my passion, and I've been lucky enough to make it a career, so I'm not bad at figuring out how it works. Always looking to be better at surfing, sailing, music, and anything fun! I guess I am realizing the big question, can you ever really be satisfyingly "good" at anything?
The first things people usually notice about me
Tried to answer this a few times and frankly I have no idea!! I would guess my personality :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hard to pick favorites as its a moving target! I love everything from fiction and classics to contemporary non-fiction reading. I buy fully into the cliche "Truth is stranger than fiction", so I try to balance in lots of non-fiction. I did just finish Keith Richards' book .... so enough said!

I am into classic movies but take some time for the latest thrillers and science fiction Favorite all time is probably Blade Runner.

Music tastes are pretty broad, rock, blues, reggae, jazz, and open to a lot. Right now listening to the Mermen and a lot of Black Keys and some old Lightnin' Hopkins and .....

Any food that can be successfully paired with good wine and music works for me (Creole and Italian are common themes for me). I love to cook and that is certainly an endless adventure.
The six things I could never do without
Books, Music, Food, Sunshine, Water, and Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what interesting or strange thing I saw to write something about. Generally something random for about 30 seconds at a time until the brain shifts to ......
On a typical Friday night I am
doing anything from hanging out with friends for dinner, drinks, or music to sitting at home reading, cooking, playing music and/or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that I really enjoy cheesy pulp fiction movies and books now and again, but that's not really private I suppose.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're into fun company for doing anything from enjoying good food and music to an adventure in the mountains or on the coast.