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revilicious

48 / M / gay / Single

Boulder, Colorado

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Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Okay)

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I am caring, hugable, and loving.

My Self-Summary

Came to Boulder for graduate school at Naropa University. Been here now for 5 years. Not sure if I am staying or moving. In a bit of transition period in my life where I am unwilling to settle for the comfortable but meaningless life. I have done that before and it is a killer! Now looking for the next jumping off point and I would like someone to share life's adventures with, while creating a joyful and meaningful life.

I moved here from Austin, TX. Miss the warm weather! Even though I grew up in KS, lived in AR, OH, RI, IL, and CO, I claim Texas as my home state. Love the ocean, even the muddy TX ocean water.

I am an eclectic religiously with bits of Pagan, Buddhist and Hindu practices/philosophies. I do not participate in any organized religion but find my source in everything around me. I don't preach to others and don't want to preached to. I love deep discussions on the matter, though.

What I’m doing with my life

I have a Masters in Counseling and a Masters of Divinity. I teach Applied Theology in a Multicultural Context in the Masters of Divinity program and Diversity Awareness/Multicultural Competencies in the Contemplative Psychotherapy Masters program and work in the registrars office at Naropa University. I also teach other classes in the fall. I want to get out and do more, make more of a difference... Not sure what form that will take.

I love to write and write a lot, especially free verse poetry. I paint abstract acrylic paintings in my spare time. And, I am getting back into photography.

So, what am I doing with my life? Living it, living it well, and I want to continue to live it well, and strive for creating situations where all can live well.

I’m really good at

Hearing and understanding. Listening to my intuition. Being forthright.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes. They are usually blue but when I am feeling happy or mischievous they are green, everything from grey-green to grass-green. I also have a shaved head, which is quite noticeable.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Sister Outsider, Decolonizing Methodologies, Tales of Adam, The Prophetic Imagination, Old Path-White Clouds, anything by Joanna Macy,...

Movies: LOTR, Longtime Companion, Harry Potter, Star Wars, The Spirit, Across the Universe

Music: Everything. I have over 80gig on my hard drive, everything from Johnny Cash, Queen, Tool, Alirio Diaz, Nina Simone, Clannad, Plain White T's, Beausoleil, Beyoncé, OutKast, and on and on...

Food: Partial to Tex-Mex, Indian, Tibetan, Japanese, and Americana, especially pizza, wings, burgers, fries...

The six things I could never do without

currently, it would be hard to live without:
1) gravity,
2) the five elements of earth, air, water, fire, and space,
3) family and friends,
4) creatures of earth and sky,
5) universal life force,
6) brilliant sunrises and sunsets.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How we humans treat each other and the world that we are a minute part. Ways to reach people and help them do inner and outer work. Materials to use and ways of being in the diversity seminars and classes I teach.

On a typical Friday night I am

Stargate Atlantis, Sanctuary, Dr. Who or some such thing. It is my wind down night from a week of work and a time to relax.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am a reserved extrovert. I am willing to share most everything with the right person.

You should message me if

you want to.